Diabetes, Kids, and COVID

Emily Oster

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Emily Oster

Diabetes, Kids, and COVID

Emily Oster

7 min Read
In early January, the CDC released, through its MMWR paper series, a report suggesting that kids under 18 who recovered from COVID-19 were at higher risk for developing diabetes. This was, predictably, widely covered in the media and led (for me, at least) to a long thread of panicked emails.

Online, a number of commentators picked at very significant limitations in the study. I agree; the study is extremely flawed. But it’s one thing to say that the study is problematic and another to unpack it and think about what might have been done differently. Which is what I want to do today. The TL;DR is that I do not see any compelling reason that the evidence should make you any more worried about this issue than you were before seeing the study.

I’ll talk it through in a few steps:

  1. What does the study do and say?
  2. What are the inherent problems and data limitations?
  3. What could it have done better?
  4. Why is this in the MMWR? Why did the CDC put it out?

What does the study do and say? 

You can read the MMWR study here. Very broadly, what the authors do is take two sources of medical claims data — this is data that reports diagnoses for individuals, based on insurance records — and explore the relationship between COVID-19 and the subsequent development of any type of diabetes in children.

More specifically: the authors identify patients who were diagnosed with COVID-19 at some point between March 2020 and February 2021. In one data set, this is based only on diagnosis; in the second it is also based on those with a positive COVID test. The authors then create an age-and-sex-matched comparison group of children who did not have a COVID-19 diagnosis during this period.

For the COVID-19 patients, the authors define the “index date” as the first date with a claim for COVID-19 or the first positive test. For the non-COVID patients, they choose a randomly selected claim date as the index date. They then analyze the number of diabetes diagnoses in the two groups in the months after the index date. This is a fairly common empirical approach, and it makes some intuitive sense. Basically, they want to ask whether a diabetes diagnosis is more common after a COVID-19 diagnosis than in another group after a randomly chosen non-COVID medical encounter.

What the authors find when they do this is that there are more diagnoses of diabetes in the month after the COVID-19 diagnosis than in the random following month in the non-COVID group. The overall numbers are small. For example, the authors find in the COVID-19 group an incidence of 316 diabetes diagnoses per 100,000 individuals per year. But the COVID-19 diagnosis group is consistently higher than the matched comparison group. The effects are more consistent for the 12-to-17 age group. And the authors show that this effect doesn’t show up if you look pre-COVID at other respiratory infections. That is, we do not see this effect after a flu diagnosis in 2018.

The diabetes diagnoses in the paper include both Type 1 and Type 2 diabetes, and the authors do not separate them out, so it is not possible to learn which type is driving these results.

The paper concludes that the data shows an increased risk of diabetes after COVID-19 infection for people under 18 and emphasizes the importance of vaccination.

What are the inherent problems and data limitations?

There are (at least) two important problems with this study. By far the most important is that the authors are unable to control for any characteristics of individuals other than age and sex.

To see why this is a problem, consider the issue of body mass index. Children vary in their BMI, and it is well-known that a higher BMI correlates with a greater chance of a Type 2 diabetes diagnosis. In addition, a higher BMI is also correlated with a greater risk of COVID-19 (not necessarily having it, but having a serious enough case for it to be detected). This latter point was made recently by the CDC in another MMWR piece.

What this means is that the population of children who have COVID-19 are more likely to have a higher BMI, and that higher BMI is associated with a greater risk of diabetes diagnosis. Even in the absence of COVID-19, they would be more likely to be diagnosed just given this risk factor.

Essentially, this is a problem of “residual confounding” or “omitted variable bias.” The two groups — the COVID and non-COVID group — are likely different in a number of ways that the authors do not adjust for. BMI is the most obvious, but others include race and socioeconomic status, as well as other conditions. Without this information, it is very difficult to know if COVID-19 is the cause of the higher rates of diabetes or if it is one of the many other differing factors.

There is a second issue, which relates to timing. Even if COVID-19 didn’t cause diabetes, we might see more diagnoses right after a diagnosis of COVID-19 because the sustained interaction with the medical system prompted diagnosis. Some of the checks the authors do make this story perhaps less likely, and I’d overall rank it as less important than the key issue of omitted variables.

The particular issue of not adjusting for BMI or obesity has been raised frequently in response to the paper. The reason the authors do not adjust for differences in this condition in their analysis is that they cannot do so with the data they have. The paper relies on medical claims data, which reports diagnosis codes but doesn’t have the kind of demographic or health data you’d get in (say) an electronic medical record. With data like this, it is simply not possible to adjust for differences in BMI or race or socioeconomic status.

This doesn’t mean they couldn’t have done better, though.

What could they have done better?

What the authors have to work with here is a long “time series” of data on individuals and diagnosis codes. With this, they could do better than they did.

One improvement to the paper would be to separate out Type 1 and Type 2 diagnoses. These have different diagnosis codes, so it is possible to look at them separately. I am not sure why that wasn’t done.

A second improvement would be to adjust for pre-diabetes. Often, with Type 2 diabetes, individuals are diagnosed with “pre-diabetes” prior to diabetes diagnosis. It’s a diagnosis that comes with some behavior-change advice and perhaps additional monitoring. There is a diagnosis code for pre-diabetes, and the authors could have used that to look at differences across groups, or as a control.

A more involved but more useful improvement would have been to use more of the time variation in the data to, effectively, look for pre-trends. To see how this works, let’s go back to the basics of their approach. The authors have a COVID-19 group and a comparison group, and they compare diabetes diagnosis rates in the month after COVID-19. If they were to put their results on a graph, it would be like this:

But the reality is that they have data from the earlier and later periods that they are not using. It would be possible to, for these same people, look at diagnosis rates earlier and later.1 Why would this be helpful? Let’s think about the graph below, where I’ve added two sets of lines, both of which would be consistent with the data in the paper.

The solid lines — light blue versus dark blue — reflect what looks like a real effect of COVID-19 on diagnosis. Most importantly, the diagnosis rates in the earlier period are similar, and it is only post-COVID that the rates go up. The dotted lines, though, would also be consistent with the numbers in the paper, but they tell a totally different story. They would tell a story of two groups with different underlying risks but where COVID seemed to play little role.

I do not know which graph would show up if the authors had done this. It wouldn’t be hard to do. My strong suspicion is it would look more like the dotted lines than the solid ones. But that is just my instinct. My point isn’t that we can prove that the results are biased in this way; it is, instead, that the paper could have been done better.

In the end, that is my strongest feeling in reading it. This paper is about a possibly important question, and in principle the data seems like it could be informative (up to a point). But the paper isn’t well-done. It’s missing very basic analysis, like separating out Type 1 and Type 2 diabetes. Graphing diagnoses over time isn’t a magical approach I made up for this newsletter; it’s standard for an event. The idea of using other suggestive diagnoses like pre-diabetes for controls is straightforward. There are a tremendous number of fillable holes.

The holes ultimately add up to the point where the paper isn’t informative. Could it be that there is an effect? There could, just like there could have been before you saw the article. But I would say I’m no more convinced of an effect after reading the paper than before, which isn’t a great commentary.

Why is this in MMWR?

I suspect the question has occurred to many of you in reading this: Why is it in MMWR? The outlet has gotten a huge amount of attention during the pandemic, and this particular article was widely covered in major media outlets. I’m far from the only person to notice its glaring weaknesses.

Why weren’t these issues caught in peer review? The goal of peer review, in an ideal world, is to identify basic weaknesses and ask the authors to fix them. The main answer is that MMWR isn’t peer-reviewed, at least not in the traditional sense. Papers undergo a 14-step review process that takes months, but the review is all internal to the CDC. In my experience from publishing there, much of this review focuses on format and phrasing and not on the content of the analysis.

MMWR publications are also an opportunity to put scientific weight behind public health messaging. In this case, the paper ends with a strong push for vaccination for children, a message that the CDC has been trying to send in many ways. I am also strongly supportive of vaccination for children, but there are much better ways to convince people (like this chart about vaccination and hospitalization in New York State).

It’s actually not helpful to try to convince people to vaccinate their kids with poor quality evidence of this type. It gives those who oppose vaccines something legitimate to complain about, and terrifies at least some parents whose kids are not vaccine eligible yet.

I am not sure why this paper was selected for MMWR or what type of review it went through. What I can say is that the paper is deeply flawed, and if you are worrying about it, you should stop.

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I’m calling on you today to share your story. I know that many of you have experienced complications during pregnancy, birth, or postpartum. It’s not something we want to talk about, but it’s important that we do. Not just for awareness, but to help people going through it feel a little less alone.

That’s why I’m asking you to post a story, photo, or reel this week with #MyUnexpectedStory and tag me. I’ll re-share as many as I can to amplify. Let’s fill our feeds with these important stories and lift each other up. Our voices can create change. And your story matters. 💙

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I’m calling on you today to share your story. I know that many of you have experienced complications during pregnancy, birth, or postpartum. It’s not something we want to talk about, but it’s important that we do. Not just for awareness, but to help people going through it feel a little less alone.

That’s why I’m asking you to post a story, photo, or reel this week with #MyUnexpectedStory and tag me. I’ll re-share as many as I can to amplify. Let’s fill our feeds with these important stories and lift each other up. Our voices can create change. And your story matters. 💙

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OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio!

OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio! ...

OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio!

OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio! ...

Is side sleeping important during pregnancy? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article on whether sleep position affects pregnancy outcomes.

Being pregnant makes you tired, and as time goes by, it gets increasingly hard to get comfortable. You were probably instructed to sleep on your side and not your back, but it turns out that advice is not based on very good data.

We now have much better data on this, and the bulk of the evidence seems to reject the link between sleep position and stillbirth or other negative outcomes. So go ahead and get some sleep however you are most comfortable. 💤

Sources:
📖 #ExpectingBetter pp. 160-163
📈 Robert M. Silver et al., “Prospective Evaluation of Maternal Sleep Position Through 30 Weeks of Gestation and Adverse Pregnancy Outcomes,” Obstetrics and Gynecology 134, no. 4 (2019): 667–76. 

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Is side sleeping important during pregnancy? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article on whether sleep position affects pregnancy outcomes.

Being pregnant makes you tired, and as time goes by, it gets increasingly hard to get comfortable. You were probably instructed to sleep on your side and not your back, but it turns out that advice is not based on very good data.

We now have much better data on this, and the bulk of the evidence seems to reject the link between sleep position and stillbirth or other negative outcomes. So go ahead and get some sleep however you are most comfortable. 💤

Sources:
📖 #ExpectingBetter pp. 160-163
📈 Robert M. Silver et al., “Prospective Evaluation of Maternal Sleep Position Through 30 Weeks of Gestation and Adverse Pregnancy Outcomes,” Obstetrics and Gynecology 134, no. 4 (2019): 667–76.

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My new book, “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available for preorder at the link in my bio!

I co-wrote #TheUnexpected with my friend and maternal fetal medicine specialist, Dr. Nathan Fox. The unfortunate reality is that about half of pregnancies include complications such as preeclampsia, miscarriage, preterm birth, and postpartum depression. Because these are things not talked about enough, it can not only be an isolating experience, but it can also make treatment harder to access.

The book lays out the data on recurrence and delves into treatment options shown to lower risk for these conditions in subsequent pregnancies. It also guides you through how to have productive conversations and make shared decisions with your doctor. I hope none of you need this book, but if you do, it’ll be here for you 💛

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Only two weeks until our book “The Unexpected” is here! Preorder at the link in my bio. 💙
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While doctors have long said Tylenol was safe, confusing studies, panic headlines, and even a lawsuit have continually stoked fears in parents. As a result, many pregnant women have chosen not to take it, even if it would help them.

This is why good data is so important! When we can trust the data, we can trust our choices. And this study shows there is no blame to be placed on pregnant women here. So if you have a migraine or fever, please take your Tylenol.

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Exciting news! We have new, high-quality data that says it’s safe to take Tylenol during pregnancy and there is no link between Tylenol exposure and neurodevelopmental issues in kids. Comment “Link” for a DM to an article exploring this groundbreaking study.

While doctors have long said Tylenol was safe, confusing studies, panic headlines, and even a lawsuit have continually stoked fears in parents. As a result, many pregnant women have chosen not to take it, even if it would help them.

This is why good data is so important! When we can trust the data, we can trust our choices. And this study shows there is no blame to be placed on pregnant women here. So if you have a migraine or fever, please take your Tylenol.

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How many words should kids say — and when? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about language development!

For this graph, researchers used a standardized measure of vocabulary size. Parents were given a survey and checked off all the words and sentences they have heard their child say.

They found that the average child—the 50th percentile line—at 24 months has about 300 words. A child at the 10th percentile—near the bottom of the distribution—has only about 50 words. On the other end, a child at the 90th percentile has close to 600 words. One main takeaway from these graphs is the explosion of language after fourteen or sixteen months. 

What’s valuable about this data is it can give us something beyond a general guideline about when to consider early intervention, and also provide reassurance that there is a significant range in this distribution at all young ages. 

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How many words should kids say — and when? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about language development!

For this graph, researchers used a standardized measure of vocabulary size. Parents were given a survey and checked off all the words and sentences they have heard their child say.

They found that the average child—the 50th percentile line—at 24 months has about 300 words. A child at the 10th percentile—near the bottom of the distribution—has only about 50 words. On the other end, a child at the 90th percentile has close to 600 words. One main takeaway from these graphs is the explosion of language after fourteen or sixteen months.

What’s valuable about this data is it can give us something beyond a general guideline about when to consider early intervention, and also provide reassurance that there is a significant range in this distribution at all young ages.

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I saw this and literally laughed out loud 😂 Thank you @adamgrant for sharing this gem! Someone let me know who originally created this masterpiece so I can give them the proper credit.

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Perimenopause comes with a whole host of symptoms, like brain fog, low sex drive, poor energy, and loss of muscle mass. These symptoms can be extremely bothersome and hard to treat. Could testosterone help? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about the data on testosterone treatment for women in perimenopause.

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What age is best to start swim lessons? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about water safety for children 💦

Summer is quickly approaching! You might be wondering if it’s the right time to have your kid start swim lessons. The AAP recommends starting between 1 and 4 years old. This is largely based on a randomized trial where young children were put into 8 or 12 weeks of swim lessons. They found that swimming ability and water safety reactions improve in both groups, and more so in the 12 weeks group.

Below this age range though, they are too young to actually learn how to swim. It’s fine to bring your baby into the pool (if you’re holding them) and they might like the water. But starting formal safety-oriented swim lessons before this age isn’t likely to be very helpful.

Most importantly, no matter how old your kid is or how good of a swimmer they are, adult supervision is always necessary!

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What age is best to start swim lessons? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about water safety for children 💦

Summer is quickly approaching! You might be wondering if it’s the right time to have your kid start swim lessons. The AAP recommends starting between 1 and 4 years old. This is largely based on a randomized trial where young children were put into 8 or 12 weeks of swim lessons. They found that swimming ability and water safety reactions improve in both groups, and more so in the 12 weeks group.

Below this age range though, they are too young to actually learn how to swim. It’s fine to bring your baby into the pool (if you’re holding them) and they might like the water. But starting formal safety-oriented swim lessons before this age isn’t likely to be very helpful.

Most importantly, no matter how old your kid is or how good of a swimmer they are, adult supervision is always necessary!

#swimlessons #watersafety #kidsswimminglessons #poolsafety #emilyoster #parentdata
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Can babies have salt? 🧂 While babies don’t need extra salt beyond what’s in breast milk or formula, the risks of salt toxicity from normal foods are minimal. There are concerns about higher blood pressure in the long term due to a higher salt diet in the first year, but the data on these is not super compelling and the differences are small.

Like with most things, moderation is key! Avoid very salty chips or olives or saltines with your infant. But if you’re doing baby-led weaning, it’s okay for them to share your lightly salted meals. Your baby does not need their own, unsalted, chicken if you’re making yourself a roast. Just skip the super salty stuff.

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Can babies have salt? 🧂 While babies don’t need extra salt beyond what’s in breast milk or formula, the risks of salt toxicity from normal foods are minimal. There are concerns about higher blood pressure in the long term due to a higher salt diet in the first year, but the data on these is not super compelling and the differences are small.

Like with most things, moderation is key! Avoid very salty chips or olives or saltines with your infant. But if you’re doing baby-led weaning, it’s okay for them to share your lightly salted meals. Your baby does not need their own, unsalted, chicken if you’re making yourself a roast. Just skip the super salty stuff.

#emilyoster #parentdata #childnutrition #babynutrition #foodforkids
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Is sleep training bad? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article breaking down the data on sleep training 😴

Among parenting topics, sleep training is one of the most divisive. Ultimately, it’s important to know that studies looking at the short- and long-term effects of sleep training show no evidence of harm. The data actually shows it can improve infant sleep and lower parental depression.

Even so, while sleep training can be a great option, it will not be for everyone. Just as people can feel judged for sleep training, they can feel judged for not doing it. Engaging in any parenting behavior because it’s what’s expected of you is not a good idea. You have to do what works best for your family! If that’s sleep training, make a plan and implement it. If not, that’s okay too.

What’s your experience with sleep training? Did you feel judged for your decision to do (or not do) it?

#sleeptraining #newparents #babysleep #emilyoster #parentdata

Is sleep training bad? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article breaking down the data on sleep training 😴

Among parenting topics, sleep training is one of the most divisive. Ultimately, it’s important to know that studies looking at the short- and long-term effects of sleep training show no evidence of harm. The data actually shows it can improve infant sleep and lower parental depression.

Even so, while sleep training can be a great option, it will not be for everyone. Just as people can feel judged for sleep training, they can feel judged for not doing it. Engaging in any parenting behavior because it’s what’s expected of you is not a good idea. You have to do what works best for your family! If that’s sleep training, make a plan and implement it. If not, that’s okay too.

What’s your experience with sleep training? Did you feel judged for your decision to do (or not do) it?

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Does your kid love to stall right before bedtime? 💤 Tell me more about their tactics in the comments below!

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Does your kid love to stall right before bedtime? 💤 Tell me more about their tactics in the comments below!

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When we face a complicated problem in pregnancy or parenting, and don’t like either option A or B, we often wait around for a secret third option to reveal itself. This magical thinking, as appealing as it is, gets in the way. We need a way to remind ourselves that we need to make an active choice, even if it is hard. The mantra I use for this: “There is no secret option C.”

Having this realization, accepting it, reminding ourselves of it, can help us make the hard decisions and accurately weigh the risks and benefits of our choices.

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Got a big decision to make? 🤔 Comment “Link” for a DM to read about my easy mantra for making hard choices.

When we face a complicated problem in pregnancy or parenting, and don’t like either option A or B, we often wait around for a secret third option to reveal itself. This magical thinking, as appealing as it is, gets in the way. We need a way to remind ourselves that we need to make an active choice, even if it is hard. The mantra I use for this: “There is no secret option C.”

Having this realization, accepting it, reminding ourselves of it, can help us make the hard decisions and accurately weigh the risks and benefits of our choices.

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Excuse the language, but I have such strong feelings about this subject! Sometimes, it feels like there’s no winning as a mother. People pressure you to breastfeed and, in the same breath, shame you for doing it in public. Which is it?!

So yes, they’re being completely unreasonable. You should be able to feed your baby in peace. What are some responses you can give to someone who tells you to cover up? Share in the comments below ⬇️

#breastfeeding #breastfeedinginpublic #breastfeedingmom #motherhood #emilyoster

Excuse the language, but I have such strong feelings about this subject! Sometimes, it feels like there’s no winning as a mother. People pressure you to breastfeed and, in the same breath, shame you for doing it in public. Which is it?!

So yes, they’re being completely unreasonable. You should be able to feed your baby in peace. What are some responses you can give to someone who tells you to cover up? Share in the comments below ⬇️

#breastfeeding #breastfeedinginpublic #breastfeedingmom #motherhood #emilyoster
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