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Diet, Alcohol, and Breastfeeding

What to eat and drink while you’re nursing

Emily Oster

9 min Read

Even if they have read Expecting Better, most people restrict what they eat during pregnancy at least somewhat. When the baby finally arrives, there are some foods which come right back on the menu (turkey sandwiches, for example).

But breastfeeding brings its own set of questions, which really come in two types.

When it’s about breastfeeding, though, the questions are much more predictable and really come in two types.

First, there are the questions about whether your eating during breastfeeding impacts your baby and, more pointedly, whether it makes them act like a jerk. Babies cry a lot, and in our search for meaning, the question of whether what we eat matters often comes up.

Second, there are the recreational questions. Specifically: Can I have alcohol or marijuana? These reflect, I think in part, the desire to return to something like “normal” post-pregnancy. Also, sometimes you just want a glass of wine.

Today I’m going to dive into three breastfeeding diet topics. First: What are the links between the foods you eat and infant colic? Mostly I’ll talk about dairy. Second: Can you have alcohol and, if so, how much? Third: What about marijuana?

(There are many other questions about breastfeeding diet. Like coffee. Or whether what you eat influences your child’s taste for varying flavors later. There’s much more on this in Cribsheet, and I’m sure we’ll revisit it here sometime too.)

Diet and behavior: allergens and milk

Does what you eat as a breastfeeding mother affect your baby’s mood? This is a hard question to answer, because babies are unpredictable. As an adult, we often have a good sense of which foods agree with us or not. For example, I love nachos, but I know that I cannot eat them. That knowledge is based on a combination of experience and experimentation. With a baby, the overall variation in behavior can leave us looking for meaning where there is none. If I eat cabbage today and my baby farts a lot tomorrow, there is a temptation to link cabbage and gas. But honestly, babies fart a lot.

What this means is that there’s a strong imperative for experimentation in this space. Where this has been somewhat explored is in the possible link between colic and allergenic foods. In particular, one possible treatment for infantile colic (excessive crying) is to try cutting out common allergens from the breastfeeding diet or by switching to a low-allergen formula.

There is one randomized trial, from 1995, that evaluated this type of intervention. It took 38 formula-fed and 77 breastfed babies and randomized them into a typical diet or a low-allergen diet, either using a low-allergen formula or (for nursing mothers) eliminating nuts, wheat, dairy, and eggs from the diet. Needless to say, this is extremely restrictive. The paper found a reduction in parent-reported infant distress eight days after adopting the new formula or diet (39% of the treatment group reported less distress relative to 16% of the control).

This is only one study, though, and the combination of the fact that parents knew if they were in the treatment group and the outcome was self-reported leads us to some concern about reporting bias. And, indeed, a larger review of this question notes that in general the evidence for or against the role of diet in infant colic is sparse.

Low-allergen diets focus on many allergens, but the question that seems to come up most often in public discourse is milk allergy. People raise the concern that maternal consumption of dairy products is a common cause of infant fussiness or discomfort. This could occur if the infant has an allergy to cow’s milk (sometimes just referred to as CMPA, for cow’s milk protein allergy).

CMPA has two types — IgE- and non-IgE-mediated. IgE-mediated allergy shows up with more standard allergy symptoms: fast onset after consumption, vomiting, lethargy, respiratory illness. Diagnosis of this type of allergy is typically straightforward, and it will respond to dietary changes.

It is much harder to diagnose non-IgE-mediated allergy to cow’s milk because the symptoms are much less specific. In some cases, there are bloody stools (a strong signal of intolerance), but this allergy is also blamed for a more general set of symptoms — crying, diarrhea, vomiting — that happen a lot anyway. There’s no test, so the diagnosis is based on symptoms and on the infant reaction to changes in diet.

There is some controversy, then, over the question of whether this intolerance is overdiagnosed. In 2020, there was an absolutely scathing article in JAMA arguing, effectively, that a huge share of these cases are simply overdiagnosis. The authors write that the actual prevalence of CMPA in the population is probably 1% to 2%, with most of that being the easier-to-diagnose IgE form. They note, though, that something like 14% of parents say their child has this sensitivity.

The paper goes on to say that the concentration of cow’s-milk proteins in breast milk is low and unlikely to trigger a response in infants. Their overall claim is that this is dramatically overdiagnosed, leading to more reaction among parents than is necessary and to unrealistic, or at least annoying, changes in diet. They blame, in part, influence from formula manufacturers and their desire to sell specialized formulas.

This article has a blistering tone that is rare in an academic paper, making it an entertaining read. But it also has a potentially reasonable point, one I have heard echoed from many pediatricians (including my own). Namely, we shouldn’t jump to dairy elimination with a baby who is just fussy. Changing diet in this way may make sense with more direct evidence — bloody poop, for example — but it shouldn’t be the first line. Definitely talk to your pediatrician before you make any big changes in either diet or formula choice.

If you do want to try making a change, be a little patient. Based on what we know about protein elimination from the bloodstream, you’d want to give it a couple of weeks.

Alcohol

Not dissimilar to the case of Botox, which I discussed recently, evaluating the possible impact of alcohol during breastfeeding is somewhat easier than evaluating the impacts during pregnancy. This is because you can directly measure the alcohol in breast milk. At a minimum, this can give a sense of the plausible exposure.

When you drink, the alcohol level in your milk reflects the alcohol level in your bloodstream. This ends up meaning that even if you drink a large amount, the amount of alcohol passing through the breast milk is quite low. In one paper, researchers calculated that even if you have four drinks extremely quickly and then breastfeed at the maximum blood-alcohol level, the exposure for the baby is still extremely low.

There is some suggestion that chronic, heavy alcohol use can impact infants in the short term, but these studies generally have very limited samples and a poor ability to control for other differences across families. Randomized studies of mothers consuming small amounts of alcohol show very limited effects. There is no good evidence of any long-term developmental effects of alcohol in breastfeeding.

The LactMed database reports: Casual use of alcohol (such as 1 glass of wine or beer per day) is unlikely to cause either short- or long-term problems in the nursing infant. 

So, good news! And if you want to be extremely cautious, or you’re thinking of a big party night out and worried about the impacts of heavier drinking, this document has a helpful reference for how long you’d need to wait to be sure that the alcohol was out of your system. For a 150-pound woman, it’s about two hours for one drink, four hours for two drinks. If you have nine drinks, it could take almost a day (but also, don’t do that).

Final side note: There is no benefit to pumping and dumping. You would only want to do so if you’ve decided to wait to nurse and you need to pump to either keep up supply or for comfort reasons.

Marijuana

The evidence on marijuana is much more complicated.

Let’s start with what we do know. Like alcohol, THC (an active ingredient in marijuana) passes into breast milk. The concentrations are lower than what the mother is exposed to, but possibly higher than the level in her bloodstream. Unlike alcohol, THC takes a long time to leave the body — days or weeks, rather than hours. The approach of waiting for the substance to eliminate from your system before nursing is not feasible.

Where things are much harder is when we turn to ask whether this low-level exposure has any impacts on infants or children. In animal models (mice, rats), researchers have seen evidence of neurological and developmental issues from maternal exposure to THC. However, findings in humans are mixed — there are some studies that show worse developmental outcomes, and others that do not.

Regardless of the result, these studies are very hard to reliably interpret, given the differences across groups of mothers. The fact that until recently, marijuana has been illegal in most of the U.S. makes this problem more extreme than it would be in the case of, for example, alcohol or cigarettes. There is also the problem that use during breastfeeding is related to use during pregnancy, which could also carry similar risks.

Bottom line: We just do not know enough to be sure either way. It seems unlikely that there are very large negative effects, since we’d be able to pick them up more easily if there were. On the other hand, we are definitely not in a position to rule out some risks, especially with heavier usage. Because marijuana is now more widely legal, usage is increasing; this makes it easier to study and also more relevant to more people. So one may hope for better data coming.

People often ask about CBD. It passes through to breast milk like THC, so the same basic concerns appear. There is little or no evidence directly on CBD from animal models. In human data it is difficult to separate the two compounds, because analysis tends to focus on marijuana overall, not individual components. Given the tremendous rise in the use of CBD for anxiety and a million other things, I would really hope we’d get better data on this one.

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