Our Approach to Gender-Inclusive Language

Our Approach to Gender-Inclusive Language


We recognize that readers of ParentData identify in different ways, and we want everything you read here to respect that diversity, reflect accuracy, and avoid reinforcing stereotypes. 

Here are the main guidelines we follow in writing about gender.

We use gender-neutral terms when possible.

We replace gender-specific terms with alternatives when possible. For example:

  • Using “spouse” or “partner” instead of “husband” or “wife”
  • Using “parent” instead of “mom” or “dad”
  • Using “sibling” instead of “brother” or “sister” 
  • Using “pregnant people” instead of “pregnant women” unless specified (see below)

We are clear and consistent with the data. 

We keep gender-specific terms consistent with the studies discussed in our articles, i.e. how participants are selected or self-identify. For example:

  • Using “women” when discussing a study where participants identified as women
  • Clearly stating when data only reflects a specific group of participants, such as heterosexual married people, when possible

We avoid reinforcing gender stereotypes.

We refrain from using language that reinforces traditional gender roles or stereotypes. For example:

  • Avoiding phrases like “mother and father” 
  • Avoiding labelling children with gender-specific qualities that aren’t supported by data
  • Using “they” for medical providers (i.e. “the doctor and their patient”) when the gender is not known or speaking in general terms