COVID Vaccines for Kids

Emily Oster

10 min Read Emily Oster

Emily Oster

COVID Vaccines for Kids

Emily Oster

10 min Read
People have been asking me about children’s vaccines for months — Should I vaccinate my kids? Should I fight about it with my spouse? Would you vaccinate yours? — and I’ve been resistant to talking about it because of my “Don’t have hypothetical arguments” policy. Until recently, it’s been unclear when vaccines for children would be available. But last week, Pfizer announced the results of its trial in 5-to-11-year-olds. And although the timeline isn’t completely firm, it seems like vaccines for kids could be coming quite soon. Hence, the argument is not quite so hypothetical, and it’s time to dig in.

The Pfizer trial: what’s the news?

I’m going to start by talking through what Pfizer announced and how to think about its findings. Then I’ll do a few more specific FAQs.

The Pfizer announcement last week reported results from a trial of COVID vaccines in children. The trial has enrolled children as young as six months, but the announcement focused on children 5 to 11. Pfizer had data on 2,268 children in this 5-to-11 age group, and its press release indicates that it found evidence of both safety and efficacy. The company announced that it would apply by the end of the month for FDA Emergency Use Authorization (EUA) for this age group.

It is worth pausing on the question of why a different dosing trial was needed for children under 12; the vaccine was approved for 12-to-15-year-olds with the adult dose. The main answer is that because younger children are smaller and possibly more immune-responsive, they were likely to respond to a lower dose of the vaccine. (Stephane Bancel, the CEO of Moderna, explained this to me in an earlier newsletter.) This trial evaluated the vaccine in children 5 to 11 with a dose of 10 micrograms, a third the size of the 30-microgram dose given to older children and adults.

With this dose — it’s a two-dose regimen, three weeks apart — Pfizer says the vaccine was “well tolerated.” Side effects at this dose were comparable to the side effects for older people (some fatigue, fever, etc.). One very important thing to note is that when the FDA evaluates the Pfizer vaccine for EUA, it will delve much more deeply into the possibility of any safety issues. The agency will read in detail the medical data on every child in the trial to look for any possible concerns. So while Pfizer’s public statements on safety so far are simple, the detailed analysis of safety will be enormous.

Pfizer also argued the vaccine was effective, and here is where the data is interesting but also different from adult trials. In the adult COVID trials, the most important outcomes measured were COVID illness (serious illness, hospitalization, death). This outcome is not considered in the pediatric trials because it is too rare even among the unvaccinated group of children.

To see this in detail, think about the numbers. The trial is 2,268 children, of whom two-thirds got the vaccine (one third got a placebo). Even if every single one of the children in the placebo group got COVID during the trial, we would still expect only about 2.5 children to be hospitalized in that group, and no deaths. The actual infection risk is much lower, making these numbers smaller. If we are looking for significant reductions in risk from vaccination, we will not see them, because the baseline risk is so small.

This is very good news for worried parents! But it’s not good for the statistical analysis of that outcome.

To be what statisticians call “powered” to detect an effect on serious illness or hospitalization, we’d need a vastly larger trial. Which could be infeasible and would at a minimum delay vaccines even more. Instead, Pfizer is resting its efficacy claims on the antibody response to the vaccine. Which makes sense, since the way the vaccines work is they produce antibodies. When the company says the vaccine is effective, it means the antibody levels in children were comparable to 16-to-25-year-olds vaccinated with the adult vaccine (in fact, the kids had slightly higher antibodies, despite the lower dose).

So that’s kind of what we have at this point.

What happens now?

Pfizer will submit truckloads of paper to the FDA to read and will ask the FDA to approve the vaccine to be used under EUA. There was a mention of this happening “by Halloween,” but I’m finding the timing on these things very unpredictable in general. As soon as the FDA approval is through, vaccines can begin.

Let’s do some questions

There are many people out there, and I count myself among them, who are eager to vaccinate their kids. But there is also considerable hesitancy, even among adults who are themselves vaccinated (Aaron Carroll had a good recent piece on this). Children are very unlikely to get seriously ill with COVID-19, meaning the most significant impact of vaccines — preventing serious illness — is less important for them. Realizing that, more parents will be reluctant; we have seen it already, with adolescent vaccination rates lower than for older age groups.

As we move into facing these decisions for real, not just hypothetically, I hope we can be prepared to be a little bit gentle with each other. Asking questions about vaccines for kids or being more cautious for kids than older adults — these are reasonable approaches. If society dismisses anyone with any hesitancy as “crazy” and labels them an “anti-vaxxer,” I think we’ll get more anger and probably less vaccination.

So! I’m going to address a bunch of questions below that focus on what we know (and what we do not) about various vaccine concerns. I’m sure this will not be the last newsletter on these choices.

What do you see as the top reasons to vaccinate your child?

  • To prevent them from getting COVID. Vaccines are excellent at preventing any COVID-19 infection. In the first months after vaccination, this protection among adults is close to 90%. Although it wanes some over time, we continue to expect significant protection against infection. Even if your child is unlikely to get seriously ill, we’d all prefer kids who are not sick.
    • Also, if they get COVID, they have to stay home from school for 10 days. Or more!
  • To prevent spread to older adults, who could still get seriously ill. Yes, even if they are vaccinated. It’s rare, but it happens, especially for the immune-compromised.
  • To simplify or eliminate quarantine for exposure. Vaccinated exposures do not need to quarantine in many scenarios.

How can I be confident in vaccine safety with such a small sample size?

I think this is a good question. The fact is, with a sample size of about 2,300 kids, the trial is not going to pick up rare complications. Myocarditis, which does seem to be a risk in young men in particular after vaccination, is showing up at rates of a few in a million. Much more data would be needed to detect complications that are this rare. Of course, the flip side of that is that those complications are rare. Complications that happen to more children would be picked up.

However: we are not flying blind. At this point, millions of 12- and 13-year-olds have been vaccinated against COVID-19. Israel has already been vaccinating younger children. We are seeing that happen safely, and that kind of real-world data should inspire confidence.

As soon as FDA approval goes through, we’ll get even more data. Many people are very eager to vaccinate their kids, which means that within the first weeks we expect to see literally millions of children vaccinated. Nearly all adverse vaccine reactions are close in time to vaccination. For anxious parents who want to wait for more data, you will not have to wait long to see millions of observations.

My kid already had COVID. Do they need a vaccine? Two shots?

These natural-immunity questions are complicated. There are many serious people who think we have not paid enough attention to natural immunity and that we should use only one shot for those who already had COVID-19.

Previous COVID-19 infection confers protection. Based on adult data from Israel, even those who were previously infected had more protection against a breakthrough if they had at least one shot. This is a strong argument for vaccination with at least one shot for this young group.

I hope that the FDA and CDC will soon issue clearer guidance for both children and adults on how we should think about natural immunity (including discussion of boosters after breakthrough, etc.). But I’m staying tuned on this.

My kid is almost 12. Wait until 12 for an adult dose? What if they are small?

I’ve heard two versions of this. The first is: If my kid is almost 12, should I wait until they are 12 so they get the bigger dose? The second is: If my 12-year-old is small in size, should I try to get them the lower dose?

The answer to both is that it likely doesn’t matter. On the first: The lower dose is producing a lot of immunity. As your kid grows up further, they will surely be getting boosters at varying doses. If you’re eager to vaccinate, the best vaccine is the first one.

On the second: They did try adult doses on kids, and the main downside was slightly greater side effects like fatigue. So the risks of having the adult dose are minimal, and many small 12-year-olds have already gotten it. Again, the best vaccine is the first you can get.

What about kids under 5?

Kids under 5 were divided into two different groups in the Pfizer trials: 2 to 5 years, and six months to 2 years. The reason for the separate groups is the need to consider even smaller doses. The indication is the dose in these trials may be as small as 3 micrograms.

Results from these trials, which enrolled later, are expected at the end of the year. From there, the timeline will be similar. You may wish it were sooner, but if I were a betting woman I’d say we’d be vaccinating these groups in January.

The good news is that these groups are extremely low-risk for serious illness, and vaccination for their older siblings will provide protection from infection.

Will you vaccinate your kids?

Yes. There are a lot of reasons for this, some of them listed above. I do not want them to get COVID. I am worried about their immune-compromised grandparent. I would like to avoid quarantine and keep them in school. I’m confident in the vaccines and the FDA process.

So, yes. For Halloween I am hoping to dress my children as partially vaccinated. So far, my kids have expressed enthusiasm about the vaccine, but the costume idea is a tough sell.

Covid-19 rapid antigen tests arranged in a pattern on a yellow background.

Feb 20 2023

12 min read

COVID-19: Where to Go from Here

A long-term view of the virus

Emily Oster
Covid-19 rapid antigen tests arranged in a pattern on a yellow background.

Oct 20 2022

9 min read

Should You Get the Bivalent Booster?

The latest on the risks and benefits of COVID vaccines boosters for older adults, pregnant people, and kids

Emily Oster
A line graph with pink, yellow, and blue dots representing life's ups and downs.

Aug 16 2022

3 min read

Wins, Woes, and Doing It Again

We have our first story from a dad! And it’s a good one. 10/10 —Girl Dad with Confidence Growing by Read more

Emily Oster
Covid-19 rapid antigen tests arranged in a pattern on a yellow background.

Aug 15 2022

8 min read

Updated CDC Guidelines for School and Child Care

NO QUARANTINES!!!

Emily Oster

Instagram

left right
I’m calling on you today to share your story. I know that many of you have experienced complications during pregnancy, birth, or postpartum. It’s not something we want to talk about, but it’s important that we do. Not just for awareness, but to help people going through it feel a little less alone.

That’s why I’m asking you to post a story, photo, or reel this week with #MyUnexpectedStory and tag me. I’ll re-share as many as I can to amplify. Let’s fill our feeds with these important stories and lift each other up. Our voices can create change. And your story matters. 💙

#theunexpected #emilyoster #pregnancycomplications #pregnancystory

I’m calling on you today to share your story. I know that many of you have experienced complications during pregnancy, birth, or postpartum. It’s not something we want to talk about, but it’s important that we do. Not just for awareness, but to help people going through it feel a little less alone.

That’s why I’m asking you to post a story, photo, or reel this week with #MyUnexpectedStory and tag me. I’ll re-share as many as I can to amplify. Let’s fill our feeds with these important stories and lift each other up. Our voices can create change. And your story matters. 💙

#theunexpected #emilyoster #pregnancycomplications #pregnancystory
...

OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio!

OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio! ...

OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio!

OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio! ...

OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio!

OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio! ...

Is side sleeping important during pregnancy? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article on whether sleep position affects pregnancy outcomes.

Being pregnant makes you tired, and as time goes by, it gets increasingly hard to get comfortable. You were probably instructed to sleep on your side and not your back, but it turns out that advice is not based on very good data.

We now have much better data on this, and the bulk of the evidence seems to reject the link between sleep position and stillbirth or other negative outcomes. So go ahead and get some sleep however you are most comfortable. 💤

Sources:
📖 #ExpectingBetter pp. 160-163
📈 Robert M. Silver et al., “Prospective Evaluation of Maternal Sleep Position Through 30 Weeks of Gestation and Adverse Pregnancy Outcomes,” Obstetrics and Gynecology 134, no. 4 (2019): 667–76. 

#emilyoster #pregnancy #pregnancytips #sleepingposition #pregnantlife

Is side sleeping important during pregnancy? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article on whether sleep position affects pregnancy outcomes.

Being pregnant makes you tired, and as time goes by, it gets increasingly hard to get comfortable. You were probably instructed to sleep on your side and not your back, but it turns out that advice is not based on very good data.

We now have much better data on this, and the bulk of the evidence seems to reject the link between sleep position and stillbirth or other negative outcomes. So go ahead and get some sleep however you are most comfortable. 💤

Sources:
📖 #ExpectingBetter pp. 160-163
📈 Robert M. Silver et al., “Prospective Evaluation of Maternal Sleep Position Through 30 Weeks of Gestation and Adverse Pregnancy Outcomes,” Obstetrics and Gynecology 134, no. 4 (2019): 667–76.

#emilyoster #pregnancy #pregnancytips #sleepingposition #pregnantlife
...

My new book, “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available for preorder at the link in my bio!

I co-wrote #TheUnexpected with my friend and maternal fetal medicine specialist, Dr. Nathan Fox. The unfortunate reality is that about half of pregnancies include complications such as preeclampsia, miscarriage, preterm birth, and postpartum depression. Because these are things not talked about enough, it can not only be an isolating experience, but it can also make treatment harder to access.

The book lays out the data on recurrence and delves into treatment options shown to lower risk for these conditions in subsequent pregnancies. It also guides you through how to have productive conversations and make shared decisions with your doctor. I hope none of you need this book, but if you do, it’ll be here for you 💛

#pregnancy #pregnancycomplications #pregnancyjourney #preeclampsiaawareness #postpartumjourney #emilyoster

My new book, “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available for preorder at the link in my bio!

I co-wrote #TheUnexpected with my friend and maternal fetal medicine specialist, Dr. Nathan Fox. The unfortunate reality is that about half of pregnancies include complications such as preeclampsia, miscarriage, preterm birth, and postpartum depression. Because these are things not talked about enough, it can not only be an isolating experience, but it can also make treatment harder to access.

The book lays out the data on recurrence and delves into treatment options shown to lower risk for these conditions in subsequent pregnancies. It also guides you through how to have productive conversations and make shared decisions with your doctor. I hope none of you need this book, but if you do, it’ll be here for you 💛

#pregnancy #pregnancycomplications #pregnancyjourney #preeclampsiaawareness #postpartumjourney #emilyoster
...

We are better writers than influencers, I promise. Thanks to our kids for filming our unboxing videos. People make this look way too easy. 

Only two weeks until our book “The Unexpected” is here! Preorder at the link in my bio. 💙

We are better writers than influencers, I promise. Thanks to our kids for filming our unboxing videos. People make this look way too easy.

Only two weeks until our book “The Unexpected” is here! Preorder at the link in my bio. 💙
...

Exciting news! We have new, high-quality data that says it’s safe to take Tylenol during pregnancy and there is no link between Tylenol exposure and neurodevelopmental issues in kids. Comment “Link” for a DM to an article exploring this groundbreaking study.

While doctors have long said Tylenol was safe, confusing studies, panic headlines, and even a lawsuit have continually stoked fears in parents. As a result, many pregnant women have chosen not to take it, even if it would help them.

This is why good data is so important! When we can trust the data, we can trust our choices. And this study shows there is no blame to be placed on pregnant women here. So if you have a migraine or fever, please take your Tylenol.

#tylenol #pregnancy #pregnancyhealth #pregnancytips #parentdata #emilyoster

Exciting news! We have new, high-quality data that says it’s safe to take Tylenol during pregnancy and there is no link between Tylenol exposure and neurodevelopmental issues in kids. Comment “Link” for a DM to an article exploring this groundbreaking study.

While doctors have long said Tylenol was safe, confusing studies, panic headlines, and even a lawsuit have continually stoked fears in parents. As a result, many pregnant women have chosen not to take it, even if it would help them.

This is why good data is so important! When we can trust the data, we can trust our choices. And this study shows there is no blame to be placed on pregnant women here. So if you have a migraine or fever, please take your Tylenol.

#tylenol #pregnancy #pregnancyhealth #pregnancytips #parentdata #emilyoster
...

How many words should kids say — and when? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about language development!

For this graph, researchers used a standardized measure of vocabulary size. Parents were given a survey and checked off all the words and sentences they have heard their child say.

They found that the average child—the 50th percentile line—at 24 months has about 300 words. A child at the 10th percentile—near the bottom of the distribution—has only about 50 words. On the other end, a child at the 90th percentile has close to 600 words. One main takeaway from these graphs is the explosion of language after fourteen or sixteen months. 

What’s valuable about this data is it can give us something beyond a general guideline about when to consider early intervention, and also provide reassurance that there is a significant range in this distribution at all young ages. 

#cribsheet #emilyoster #parentdata #languagedevelopment #firstwords

How many words should kids say — and when? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about language development!

For this graph, researchers used a standardized measure of vocabulary size. Parents were given a survey and checked off all the words and sentences they have heard their child say.

They found that the average child—the 50th percentile line—at 24 months has about 300 words. A child at the 10th percentile—near the bottom of the distribution—has only about 50 words. On the other end, a child at the 90th percentile has close to 600 words. One main takeaway from these graphs is the explosion of language after fourteen or sixteen months.

What’s valuable about this data is it can give us something beyond a general guideline about when to consider early intervention, and also provide reassurance that there is a significant range in this distribution at all young ages.

#cribsheet #emilyoster #parentdata #languagedevelopment #firstwords
...

I saw this and literally laughed out loud 😂 Thank you @adamgrant for sharing this gem! Someone let me know who originally created this masterpiece so I can give them the proper credit.

I saw this and literally laughed out loud 😂 Thank you @adamgrant for sharing this gem! Someone let me know who originally created this masterpiece so I can give them the proper credit. ...

Perimenopause comes with a whole host of symptoms, like brain fog, low sex drive, poor energy, and loss of muscle mass. These symptoms can be extremely bothersome and hard to treat. Could testosterone help? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about the data on testosterone treatment for women in perimenopause.

#perimenopause #perimenopausehealth #womenshealth #hormoneimbalance #emilyoster #parentdata

Perimenopause comes with a whole host of symptoms, like brain fog, low sex drive, poor energy, and loss of muscle mass. These symptoms can be extremely bothersome and hard to treat. Could testosterone help? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about the data on testosterone treatment for women in perimenopause.

#perimenopause #perimenopausehealth #womenshealth #hormoneimbalance #emilyoster #parentdata
...

What age is best to start swim lessons? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about water safety for children 💦

Summer is quickly approaching! You might be wondering if it’s the right time to have your kid start swim lessons. The AAP recommends starting between 1 and 4 years old. This is largely based on a randomized trial where young children were put into 8 or 12 weeks of swim lessons. They found that swimming ability and water safety reactions improve in both groups, and more so in the 12 weeks group.

Below this age range though, they are too young to actually learn how to swim. It’s fine to bring your baby into the pool (if you’re holding them) and they might like the water. But starting formal safety-oriented swim lessons before this age isn’t likely to be very helpful.

Most importantly, no matter how old your kid is or how good of a swimmer they are, adult supervision is always necessary!

#swimlessons #watersafety #kidsswimminglessons #poolsafety #emilyoster #parentdata

What age is best to start swim lessons? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about water safety for children 💦

Summer is quickly approaching! You might be wondering if it’s the right time to have your kid start swim lessons. The AAP recommends starting between 1 and 4 years old. This is largely based on a randomized trial where young children were put into 8 or 12 weeks of swim lessons. They found that swimming ability and water safety reactions improve in both groups, and more so in the 12 weeks group.

Below this age range though, they are too young to actually learn how to swim. It’s fine to bring your baby into the pool (if you’re holding them) and they might like the water. But starting formal safety-oriented swim lessons before this age isn’t likely to be very helpful.

Most importantly, no matter how old your kid is or how good of a swimmer they are, adult supervision is always necessary!

#swimlessons #watersafety #kidsswimminglessons #poolsafety #emilyoster #parentdata
...

Can babies have salt? 🧂 While babies don’t need extra salt beyond what’s in breast milk or formula, the risks of salt toxicity from normal foods are minimal. There are concerns about higher blood pressure in the long term due to a higher salt diet in the first year, but the data on these is not super compelling and the differences are small.

Like with most things, moderation is key! Avoid very salty chips or olives or saltines with your infant. But if you’re doing baby-led weaning, it’s okay for them to share your lightly salted meals. Your baby does not need their own, unsalted, chicken if you’re making yourself a roast. Just skip the super salty stuff.

 #emilyoster #parentdata #childnutrition #babynutrition #foodforkids

Can babies have salt? 🧂 While babies don’t need extra salt beyond what’s in breast milk or formula, the risks of salt toxicity from normal foods are minimal. There are concerns about higher blood pressure in the long term due to a higher salt diet in the first year, but the data on these is not super compelling and the differences are small.

Like with most things, moderation is key! Avoid very salty chips or olives or saltines with your infant. But if you’re doing baby-led weaning, it’s okay for them to share your lightly salted meals. Your baby does not need their own, unsalted, chicken if you’re making yourself a roast. Just skip the super salty stuff.

#emilyoster #parentdata #childnutrition #babynutrition #foodforkids
...

Is sleep training bad? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article breaking down the data on sleep training 😴

Among parenting topics, sleep training is one of the most divisive. Ultimately, it’s important to know that studies looking at the short- and long-term effects of sleep training show no evidence of harm. The data actually shows it can improve infant sleep and lower parental depression.

Even so, while sleep training can be a great option, it will not be for everyone. Just as people can feel judged for sleep training, they can feel judged for not doing it. Engaging in any parenting behavior because it’s what’s expected of you is not a good idea. You have to do what works best for your family! If that’s sleep training, make a plan and implement it. If not, that’s okay too.

What’s your experience with sleep training? Did you feel judged for your decision to do (or not do) it?

#sleeptraining #newparents #babysleep #emilyoster #parentdata

Is sleep training bad? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article breaking down the data on sleep training 😴

Among parenting topics, sleep training is one of the most divisive. Ultimately, it’s important to know that studies looking at the short- and long-term effects of sleep training show no evidence of harm. The data actually shows it can improve infant sleep and lower parental depression.

Even so, while sleep training can be a great option, it will not be for everyone. Just as people can feel judged for sleep training, they can feel judged for not doing it. Engaging in any parenting behavior because it’s what’s expected of you is not a good idea. You have to do what works best for your family! If that’s sleep training, make a plan and implement it. If not, that’s okay too.

What’s your experience with sleep training? Did you feel judged for your decision to do (or not do) it?

#sleeptraining #newparents #babysleep #emilyoster #parentdata
...

Does your kid love to stall right before bedtime? 💤 Tell me more about their tactics in the comments below!

#funnytweets #bedtime #nightimeroutine #parentinghumor #parentingmemes

Does your kid love to stall right before bedtime? 💤 Tell me more about their tactics in the comments below!

#funnytweets #bedtime #nightimeroutine #parentinghumor #parentingmemes
...

Got a big decision to make? 🤔 Comment “Link” for a DM to read about my easy mantra for making hard choices. 

When we face a complicated problem in pregnancy or parenting, and don’t like either option A or B, we often wait around for a secret third option to reveal itself. This magical thinking, as appealing as it is, gets in the way. We need a way to remind ourselves that we need to make an active choice, even if it is hard. The mantra I use for this: “There is no secret option C.”

Having this realization, accepting it, reminding ourselves of it, can help us make the hard decisions and accurately weigh the risks and benefits of our choices.

#parentingquotes #decisionmaking #nosecretoptionc #parentingadvice #emilyoster #parentdata

Got a big decision to make? 🤔 Comment “Link” for a DM to read about my easy mantra for making hard choices.

When we face a complicated problem in pregnancy or parenting, and don’t like either option A or B, we often wait around for a secret third option to reveal itself. This magical thinking, as appealing as it is, gets in the way. We need a way to remind ourselves that we need to make an active choice, even if it is hard. The mantra I use for this: “There is no secret option C.”

Having this realization, accepting it, reminding ourselves of it, can help us make the hard decisions and accurately weigh the risks and benefits of our choices.

#parentingquotes #decisionmaking #nosecretoptionc #parentingadvice #emilyoster #parentdata
...