EM3

The piece I’m missing in this is— how does the child feel? Is he having a great time and it’s a fun break from normalcy? Or does he get thrown off and feel miserable there? I agree with others that this is a huge privilege— what I wouldn’t give for in-laws who could do overnights with our kids. I think if you have a safety concern, you should cancel. I think if your kid is miserable, you should cancel. I think if everyone’s going to have a great time (including you, on your vacation!), then you should let the non-safety things slide. This probably isn’t going to ruin your kiddo.