JoW

With you in solidarity; so no trips or overnights planned on our end. I feel differently about “ spoiling” than most commenters. I would love it if my in-laws would spoil my five and eight-year-old boys! They are retired in their 60s financially stable, and yet we only rely on them for care when we have no other choice. to me spoiling is not sticking my kids in front of the TV all day and ordering pizza. That’s laziness. Spoiling would look like taking them to the zoo taking them out for an ice cream, taking them to the movies buying them a cool Lego set and sitting down and doing it with them. The real bummer for me is that the grandparents are truly uninterested in my kids.