mysticrose29

This is something I have always struggled with. I honestly don’t know if I’m capable of this, in these hard scenarios.

I *know* decisions have to be made. I have personally experienced having them “made for me” by not choosing. It probably doesn’t help that when I *do* male choices, they’re usually the wrong ones. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Yet again & again, I just can’t seem to make myself choose between 2 bad options, 2 options with large downsides, or even 2 equally great options.

Is there some secret process or way that people do this? *HOW* do you just jump off a cliff and completely turn your back on some other version of your life that could’ve been? I really need to know, tangibly, HOW to do this. “Just accept that you’re going to be unhappy & make a choice – & do it” isn’t enough to tell me HOW to do those things…

I’d love any tips. Or if you share this affliction, I’d love the camaraderie (misery loves company, after all)!