How to Start Solids

Emily Oster

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How to Start Solids

What to do when the data doesn’t tell you everything

Emily Oster

10 min Read

There are many decisions in parenting where we can use data to answer some big questions but it falls pretty flat on the details. An example is sleep training. There is reasonably good evidence on the benefits of sleep training and its short- and long-term effects. But if you decide you do want to sleep train, there isn’t really any evidence as to what is the best way to do it. Potty training is another case study. We can bring some data to the question — data that tells you, for example, that the earlier you start training, the longer it will take. But when you decide to actually do it, the data falls quite flat on the question of the “best” method.

In many of these cases — and this is essentially the central thesis of Cribsheet — the lack of data mostly reflects the fact that it doesn’t matter very much what you do on these details. There are a lot of good ways to potty train, some of which will work better for some families than others. Sleep training programs all work similarly — you want to stick to one, but which one isn’t that important.

That argument is simultaneously freeing and frustrating. It’s reassuring to know that you probably will not mess up too badly. But for some of us, it is paralyzing to try to move forward without a plan.

I would argue that perhaps nowhere is this more the case than in the introduction of solid foods. Data gives us a few hints as to dos and don’ts but virtually nothing on the how. Yet it is the how that is daunting. The first food we gave my daughter was rice cereal. I remember giving her some, taking a few pictures, noting the milestone. And then slowly realizing that, like, we were supposed to do this all the time now? How was that even going to work?

Today’s newsletter starts with the (limited) data-based guidance on starting infants on solids and then offers some perspective — and some resources — for making a plan when the data isn’t going to make it for you.*

What the data says: solid food introductions

There are a few guidelines for starting solid foods that are supported in the data. Here’s a simple list.

  1. Babies are ready for solid food when they can hold their head up, sit with support, and start moving their hands toward their mouth. General guidelines are four to six months, although increasingly, advice from the American Academy of Pediatrics, the CDC, and others pushes toward six months. Solid food shouldn’t be started before four months.
  2. Allergens — peanuts, eggs, dairy, wheat — should be introduced early. Early allergen introduction has been reliably shown to lower the risk of developing long-term allergies. These products shouldn’t just be introduced early; they need to be eaten with some frequency.
  3. Early foods should have iron in them (babies at this age begin to need more iron than is in breast milk or formula).
  4. Do not introduce choking hazards (e.g. hard candies, nuts) to babies.
  5. Tastes are formed by repeated exposure to flavors early on (there is a fascinating study about a taste for carrots being formed by carrot-juice-drinking moms through breast milk, for example). This means that exposing kids to the same foods over and over even if they do not like them the first time is a good idea.

In addition to these, there are some logic-based guidelines. Babies do not have many teeth, so it is a good idea to introduce softer foods first.

There are also a lot of things you might be told that the data doesn’t support. In the puree versus baby-led-weaning discussion, for example, people sometimes argue that baby-led weaning lowers obesity rates. On the flip side, others argue it leads to more choking. Neither claim is well supported by the data.

There is also talk about early food choices contributing to picky eating. Picky eating is a tricky problem for many families, and there are some data-oriented approaches to addressing it, but any measured impact of early food introduction on this behavior is extremely limited.

You’ll hear that rice cereal is the “perfect” first food, or that oatmeal is. The reality is that across the globe there is an enormous variation in what “first foods” are, and nothing to say one is better than another.

There’s also no strong evidence to support the prohibition on using salt in infant food (in moderation, obviously). And this idea that you need to introduce only one food every three days? That’s more tradition than data-based logic. While it’s true that early on it’s useful to pay attention to new foods in case your child has a reaction, you can do that with a much faster food introduction schedule.

Finally, when we think about the question of what a healthy diet is, as I talk about ad nauseam, our evidence in general is simply quite poor. If you’re looking for data to say your child (or you!) should eat only organic food, or grass-fed food, or avoid sugar overall, you aren’t going to find good support in the research.

Looking at what the data does and doesn’t tell us, it should be clear that the information we have would be consistent with a huge variety of approaches to the introduction of solid foods. You can adhere to the data with a traditional approach of starting with rice cereal and working your way through single-ingredient jarred baby foods (with, say, a product like Ready, Set, Food!, SpoonfulONE, or Lil Mixins to cover your early introduction of allergens). Or you could adhere to it through a full-on baby-led-weaning approach where your child eats a version of what you eat from very early on. Or you could be somewhere in the middle. Or, like me, you could do it completely differently with the first and second child.

The question, though, is where to go from there — how to choose, if the data doesn’t choose for you. I’m going to argue that you have two steps: asking where you want to go and what’s comfortable for you, and then making a plan.

Where do you want to go with food introduction and what’s comfortable?

With something like potty training, it is clear where we want to go: to a magical place with no diapers. With food introduction, it’s sometimes less obvious.

Here’s a thought experiment, from the standpoint of someone with a five-month-old: What do you want mealtimes for your child (and you) to look like at nine or 10 months? Do you imagine eating meals all together? Do you imagine feeding your child separately? If you imagine eating together, do you imagine your child eating what’s on your plate (more or less)?

Answering this doesn’t really speak to the details of how to do it, but it is a useful frame for (say) thinking about baby-led weaning versus other approaches. This question also helps to visualize where you are going in a way that means you hopefully will not be surprised, as I was, that solid food introduction doesn’t end when you complete the first rice cereal feeding.

A closely related thought experiment is simply what feels comfortable and practical to you. This has a million components. Some approaches to food introduction are much messier than others. Personally, I embrace the mess (as my spouse will tell you). But this isn’t how everyone feels, and your own reaction is something to factor in. There are questions of practicality to consider. Making your own baby food in a food mill may seem great in principle but may not be feasible in practice. There is a lot of room here for making it feel good to you.

Make a plan for food (and some resources to do so)

Just because the data doesn’t make a plan for you doesn’t mean you cannot make a plan. If thinking about the details of introducing foods makes your skin crawl with anxiety, the way out may be to recognize that any plan that adheres to the basic data-based principles will make you feel better.

I’m not talking about anything too elaborate. I’m picturing … a Google Sheet, with the date, what they will eat that day, maybe at what time? I would imagine that you could all make a much nicer, color-coded version than I would. If it were me, I would probably start by planning out a week or two, and then somewhere in the sheet keep a running list of foods that had been tried. But, again, I suspect you can all do this better.

Or you can rely on someone else to do it for you. There are some very excellent resources (thank you, people of Instagram, for mentioning many of these) that can help.** I’m going to detail a few below.

I want to be clear: several of these are focused on baby-led weaning, and they all come (as do we all) with their own perspective. These resources make sense to me, and I think can be helpful if they work for you. But I’d suggest you approach them as assistance to your own planning, rather than some type of rigid guidance that you must follow to produce a successful eater. The whole point here is that there are lots of good approaches that are consistent with what we know from data.

  • Solid Starts: This was the clear winner when I polled people on Instagram. It has a great (free) food database and very detailed (paid) plans for food introduction. If this approach works for you and you want someone to provide you with recipes and a detailed guide, this ticked all the data boxes for me. There’s also an app.
  • Zayne’s Plate: Adorable and helpful Instagram content, a cookbook, and a free 28-day meal plan (accessible here).
  • Feeding Littles: Online courses designed to walk you through an introduction to baby-led weaning.
  • Resources for a puree-forward route (noting that these are generally produced by baby food companies): Yumi (designs meals and delivers the food; organic), Earth’s Best.

Bottom line: No data doesn’t have to mean no plan. It just means you get to choose your own adventure. And whatever adventure you choose, it will end with oatmeal and bananas smeared around your house in a sticky glue-like paste. Enjoy!


*This discussion is focused around food introductions for children without diagnosed eating issues. If you are in need of resources around significant food aversions, I recommend Virginia Sole-Smith’s book The Eating Instinct.

**These resources are really focused on starting solids. There are a bunch of others — like Kids Eat in Color — that many people mentioned that focus on picky eating. For another time!

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Potty training can feel like a Mount Everest-size challenge, and sadly, our evidence-based guidance is poor. So, I created a survey to collate advice and feedback on success from about 6,000 participants.

How long does potty training take? We found that there is a strong basic pattern here: the later you wait to start, the shorter time it takes to potty train. On average, people who start at under 18 months report it takes them about 12 weeks for their child to be fully trained (using the toilet consistently for both peeing and pooping). For those who start between 3 and 3.5, it’s more like nine days. Keep in mind that for all of these age groups, there is a range of length of time from a few days to over a year. Sometimes parents are told that if you do it right, it only takes a few days. While that is true for some people, it is definitely not the norm.

If you’re in the throes of potty training, hang in there! 

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Potty training can feel like a Mount Everest-size challenge, and sadly, our evidence-based guidance is poor. So, I created a survey to collate advice and feedback on success from about 6,000 participants.

How long does potty training take? We found that there is a strong basic pattern here: the later you wait to start, the shorter time it takes to potty train. On average, people who start at under 18 months report it takes them about 12 weeks for their child to be fully trained (using the toilet consistently for both peeing and pooping). For those who start between 3 and 3.5, it’s more like nine days. Keep in mind that for all of these age groups, there is a range of length of time from a few days to over a year. Sometimes parents are told that if you do it right, it only takes a few days. While that is true for some people, it is definitely not the norm.

If you’re in the throes of potty training, hang in there!

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For children or adults with severe food allergies, they can be incredibly scary and restrictive. We may imagine that it’s easy to deal with a peanut allergy by, say, not eating peanut butter sandwiches. But for someone with a severe version of this allergy, they may never be able to go to a restaurant, for fear of a severe reaction to something in the air. Right now, there’s only one approved treatment for severe allergies like this and it’s limited to peanuts.

This is why the new medication Xolair is very exciting. It promises a second possible treatment avenue and one that works for other allergens. A new trail analyzed data from 177 children with severe food allergies. Two-thirds of the treatment group were able to tolerate the specified endpoint, versus just 7% of the placebo group. This is a very large treatment effect, and the authors found similarly large impacts on other allergens. 

There are some caveats: This treatment won’t work for everyone. (One-third of participants did not respond to it.) Additionally, this treatment is an injection given every two to four weeks, indefinitely. This may make it less palatable to children. 

Overall, even with caveats, this is life-changing news for many families!

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For children or adults with severe food allergies, they can be incredibly scary and restrictive. We may imagine that it’s easy to deal with a peanut allergy by, say, not eating peanut butter sandwiches. But for someone with a severe version of this allergy, they may never be able to go to a restaurant, for fear of a severe reaction to something in the air. Right now, there’s only one approved treatment for severe allergies like this and it’s limited to peanuts.

This is why the new medication Xolair is very exciting. It promises a second possible treatment avenue and one that works for other allergens. A new trail analyzed data from 177 children with severe food allergies. Two-thirds of the treatment group were able to tolerate the specified endpoint, versus just 7% of the placebo group. This is a very large treatment effect, and the authors found similarly large impacts on other allergens.

There are some caveats: This treatment won’t work for everyone. (One-third of participants did not respond to it.) Additionally, this treatment is an injection given every two to four weeks, indefinitely. This may make it less palatable to children.

Overall, even with caveats, this is life-changing news for many families!

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If you have a fever during pregnancy, you should take Tylenol, both because it will make you feel better and because of concerns about fever in pregnancy (although these are also overstated).

The evidence that suggests risks to Tylenol focuses largely on more extensive exposure — say, taking it for more than 28 days during pregnancy. There is no credible evidence, even correlational, to suggest that taking it occasionally for a fever or headache would be an issue.

People take Tylenol for a reason. For many people, the choice may be between debilitating weekly migraines and regular Tylenol usage. The impacts studies suggest are very small. In making this decision, we should weigh the real, known benefit against the suggestion of this possible risk. Perhaps not everyone will come out at the same place on this, but it is crucial we give people the tools to make the choice for themselves.

#emilyoster #parentdata #tylenol #pregnancy #pregnancytips

If you have a fever during pregnancy, you should take Tylenol, both because it will make you feel better and because of concerns about fever in pregnancy (although these are also overstated).

The evidence that suggests risks to Tylenol focuses largely on more extensive exposure — say, taking it for more than 28 days during pregnancy. There is no credible evidence, even correlational, to suggest that taking it occasionally for a fever or headache would be an issue.

People take Tylenol for a reason. For many people, the choice may be between debilitating weekly migraines and regular Tylenol usage. The impacts studies suggest are very small. In making this decision, we should weigh the real, known benefit against the suggestion of this possible risk. Perhaps not everyone will come out at the same place on this, but it is crucial we give people the tools to make the choice for themselves.

#emilyoster #parentdata #tylenol #pregnancy #pregnancytips
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Parenting trends are like Cabbage Patch Kids: they’re usually only popular because a bunch of people are using them! Most of the time, these trends are not based on new scientific research, and even if they are, that new research doesn’t reflect all of what we’ve studied before.

In the future, before hopping onto the latest trend, check the data first. Unlike Cabbage Patch Kids, parenting trends can add a lot of unnecessary stress and challenges to your plate. What’s a recent trend that you’ve been wondering about?

#parentdata #emilyoster #parentingtips #parentingadvice #parentinghacks

Parenting trends are like Cabbage Patch Kids: they’re usually only popular because a bunch of people are using them! Most of the time, these trends are not based on new scientific research, and even if they are, that new research doesn’t reflect all of what we’ve studied before.

In the future, before hopping onto the latest trend, check the data first. Unlike Cabbage Patch Kids, parenting trends can add a lot of unnecessary stress and challenges to your plate. What’s a recent trend that you’ve been wondering about?

#parentdata #emilyoster #parentingtips #parentingadvice #parentinghacks
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As of this week, 1 million copies of my books have been sold. This feels humbling and, frankly, unbelievable. I’m so thankful to those of you who’ve read and passed along your recommendations of the books.

When I wrote Expecting Better, I had no plan for all of this — I wrote that book because I felt compelled to write it, because it was the book I wanted to read. As I’ve come out with more books, and now ParentData, I am closer to seeing what I hope we can all create. That is: a world where everyone has access to reliable data, based on causal evidence, to make informed, confident decisions that work for their families.

I’m so grateful you’re all here as a part of this, and I want to thank you! If you’ve been waiting for the right moment to sign up for full access to ParentData, this is it. ⭐️ Comment “Link” for a DM with a discount code for 20% off of a new monthly or annual subscription to ParentData! 

Thank you again for being the best community of readers and internet-friends on the planet. I am so lucky to have you all here.

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As of this week, 1 million copies of my books have been sold. This feels humbling and, frankly, unbelievable. I’m so thankful to those of you who’ve read and passed along your recommendations of the books.

When I wrote Expecting Better, I had no plan for all of this — I wrote that book because I felt compelled to write it, because it was the book I wanted to read. As I’ve come out with more books, and now ParentData, I am closer to seeing what I hope we can all create. That is: a world where everyone has access to reliable data, based on causal evidence, to make informed, confident decisions that work for their families.

I’m so grateful you’re all here as a part of this, and I want to thank you! If you’ve been waiting for the right moment to sign up for full access to ParentData, this is it. ⭐️ Comment “Link” for a DM with a discount code for 20% off of a new monthly or annual subscription to ParentData!

Thank you again for being the best community of readers and internet-friends on the planet. I am so lucky to have you all here.

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Just eat your Cheerios and move on.

Just eat your Cheerios and move on. ...

The AAP’s guidelines recommend sleeping in the same room as your baby “ideally for the first six months.” However, the risk of SIDS is dramatically lower after four months, and the evidence in favor of the protective effect of room sharing is quite weak (both overall and even more so after four months). There is also growing evidence that infants who sleep in their own room by four months sleep better at four months, better at nine months, and even better at 30 months.

With this in mind, it’s worth asking why this recommendation continues at all — or at least why the AAP doesn’t push it back to four months. They say decreased arousals from sleep are linked to SIDS, which could mean that babies sleeping in their own room is risky. But this link is extremely indirect, and they do not show direct evidence to support it.

According to the data we have, parents should sleep in the same room as a baby for as long as it works for them! Sharing a room with a child may have negative impacts on both child and adult sleep. We should give families more help in navigating these trade-offs and making the decisions that work best for them.

#emilyoster #parentdata #roomsharing #sids #parentingguide

The AAP’s guidelines recommend sleeping in the same room as your baby “ideally for the first six months.” However, the risk of SIDS is dramatically lower after four months, and the evidence in favor of the protective effect of room sharing is quite weak (both overall and even more so after four months). There is also growing evidence that infants who sleep in their own room by four months sleep better at four months, better at nine months, and even better at 30 months.

With this in mind, it’s worth asking why this recommendation continues at all — or at least why the AAP doesn’t push it back to four months. They say decreased arousals from sleep are linked to SIDS, which could mean that babies sleeping in their own room is risky. But this link is extremely indirect, and they do not show direct evidence to support it.

According to the data we have, parents should sleep in the same room as a baby for as long as it works for them! Sharing a room with a child may have negative impacts on both child and adult sleep. We should give families more help in navigating these trade-offs and making the decisions that work best for them.

#emilyoster #parentdata #roomsharing #sids #parentingguide
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It was an absolute pleasure to be featured on the @tamronhallshow! We talked about all things data-driven parenting and, in this clip, what I call the plague of secret parenting. To balance having a career and having a family, we can’t hide the fact that we’re parents. If mothers and fathers at the top can speak more openly about child-care obligations, it will help us all set a new precedent.

Watch the full segment at the link in my bio 🔗

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It was an absolute pleasure to be featured on the @tamronhallshow! We talked about all things data-driven parenting and, in this clip, what I call the plague of secret parenting. To balance having a career and having a family, we can’t hide the fact that we’re parents. If mothers and fathers at the top can speak more openly about child-care obligations, it will help us all set a new precedent.

Watch the full segment at the link in my bio 🔗

#tamronhall #tamronhallshow #emilyoster #parentingsupport #workingparents
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Invisible labor. It’s the work — in our households especially — that has to happen but that no one sees. It’s making the doctor’s appointment, ensuring birthday cards are purchased, remembering the milk.

My guest on this episode, @everodsky, has come up with a solution here, or at least a way for us to recognize the problem and make our own solutions. I’ve wanted to speak with Eve for ages, since I read her book Fair Play. We had a great conversation about the division of household labor, one I think you’ll get a lot out of!

Listen and subscribe to ParentData with Emily Oster in your favorite podcast app 🎧

#emilyoster #parentdata #parentdatapodcast #parentingpodcast #householdtips #fairplay #invisiblelabor

Invisible labor. It’s the work — in our households especially — that has to happen but that no one sees. It’s making the doctor’s appointment, ensuring birthday cards are purchased, remembering the milk.

My guest on this episode, @everodsky, has come up with a solution here, or at least a way for us to recognize the problem and make our own solutions. I’ve wanted to speak with Eve for ages, since I read her book Fair Play. We had a great conversation about the division of household labor, one I think you’ll get a lot out of!

Listen and subscribe to ParentData with Emily Oster in your favorite podcast app 🎧

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Prenatal vitamins 💊 If there is any product that seems designed to prey on our fears, it’s this one. You’re newly pregnant and you want to do it right. Everyone agrees you need prenatal vitamins, so you get them. But do you want to be that person who just… buys the generic prenatal vitamins?

Good news: fancier vitamins are not better.  Folic acid is the most important prenatal ingredient. Iron (with vitamin C) and DHA are also nice to have. Other included ingredients have only weak or no evidence to support their use. (If you do not consume animal products, add B12, plus a few others depending on your diet.)

Vitamins are just vitamins. Any prenatal vitamin that contains these is enough. 

Comment “Link” for a DM to an article with everything you need to know about prenatal vitamins.

#emilyoster #parentdata #prenatalvitamins #pregnancydiet #pregnancytips

Prenatal vitamins 💊 If there is any product that seems designed to prey on our fears, it’s this one. You’re newly pregnant and you want to do it right. Everyone agrees you need prenatal vitamins, so you get them. But do you want to be that person who just… buys the generic prenatal vitamins?

Good news: fancier vitamins are not better. Folic acid is the most important prenatal ingredient. Iron (with vitamin C) and DHA are also nice to have. Other included ingredients have only weak or no evidence to support their use. (If you do not consume animal products, add B12, plus a few others depending on your diet.)

Vitamins are just vitamins. Any prenatal vitamin that contains these is enough.

Comment “Link” for a DM to an article with everything you need to know about prenatal vitamins.

#emilyoster #parentdata #prenatalvitamins #pregnancydiet #pregnancytips
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When it comes to introducing your newborn to the world, timing matters. It’s a good idea to minimize germ exposure in the first 6-8 weeks; after that, it’s inevitable and, very likely, a good idea! This doesn’t mean you need to be trapped inside. The most significant exposure risks are from seeing other people at home — family, etc. These interactions are not infinitely risky, but they do pose more risk than a walk or a trip to the grocery store, since they involve closer interaction. Think simple and make sure everyone is washing their hands before holding the baby. 💛

#parentdata #emilyoster #newborncare #parentingadvice #parentingtips

When it comes to introducing your newborn to the world, timing matters. It’s a good idea to minimize germ exposure in the first 6-8 weeks; after that, it’s inevitable and, very likely, a good idea! This doesn’t mean you need to be trapped inside. The most significant exposure risks are from seeing other people at home — family, etc. These interactions are not infinitely risky, but they do pose more risk than a walk or a trip to the grocery store, since they involve closer interaction. Think simple and make sure everyone is washing their hands before holding the baby. 💛

#parentdata #emilyoster #newborncare #parentingadvice #parentingtips
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The first edition of Hot Flash is out now! Comment “Link” for a DM to learn more about the late-reproductive stage.

There are times when we expect hormonal shifts. Our reproductive lives are bookended by puberty and menopause. We discuss those changes often because they are definitive and dramatic — a first period is something many of us remember clearly. But between ages 13 and 53, our hormones are changing in more subtle ways. During the late-reproductive stage (in your 40s), you can expect a lot of changes in your menstrual cycle, including the length and symptoms you experience throughout. It’s an important time in our lives that is often overlooked!

🔥 Hot Flash from ParentData is a weekly newsletter on navigating your health and hormones in the post-reproductive years. Written by Dr. Gillian Goddard, Hot Flash provides all of the information you need to have a productive, evidence-based conversation about hormonal health with your doctor.

#emilyoster #parentdata #hotflash #perimenopause #womenshealth

The first edition of Hot Flash is out now! Comment “Link” for a DM to learn more about the late-reproductive stage.

There are times when we expect hormonal shifts. Our reproductive lives are bookended by puberty and menopause. We discuss those changes often because they are definitive and dramatic — a first period is something many of us remember clearly. But between ages 13 and 53, our hormones are changing in more subtle ways. During the late-reproductive stage (in your 40s), you can expect a lot of changes in your menstrual cycle, including the length and symptoms you experience throughout. It’s an important time in our lives that is often overlooked!

🔥 Hot Flash from ParentData is a weekly newsletter on navigating your health and hormones in the post-reproductive years. Written by Dr. Gillian Goddard, Hot Flash provides all of the information you need to have a productive, evidence-based conversation about hormonal health with your doctor.

#emilyoster #parentdata #hotflash #perimenopause #womenshealth
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There are plenty of reels telling you how to parent. Plenty of panic headlines saying that “studies show” what’s best for your kid. Even good data, from a trusted source, can send us into a spiral of comparison. But I want you to remember that no one knows your kid better than you. It’s important to absorb the research, but only you will know the approach that works best for you and your child. 💙

Now tell me in the comments: what’s a parenting move you’ve made recently that feels right to you?

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There are plenty of reels telling you how to parent. Plenty of panic headlines saying that “studies show” what’s best for your kid. Even good data, from a trusted source, can send us into a spiral of comparison. But I want you to remember that no one knows your kid better than you. It’s important to absorb the research, but only you will know the approach that works best for you and your child. 💙

Now tell me in the comments: what’s a parenting move you’ve made recently that feels right to you?

#parentingcommunity #parentingsupport #parentingquotes #emilyoster #parentdata
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Let’s talk about sex (after) baby! Today on the podcast, I was lucky enough to speak with @enagoski about her new book on sexual connection in long-term relationships. Especially after having kids, this is something many people struggle with. Emily tells us to stop worrying about what’s “normal” and focus on pleasure in its many forms.

Listen and subscribe to ParentData with Emily Oster in your favorite podcast app 🎧

#parentdata #parentdatapodcast #emilyoster #emilynagoski #comeasyouare #cometogether #longtermrelationship #intimacy #relationships

Let’s talk about sex (after) baby! Today on the podcast, I was lucky enough to speak with @enagoski about her new book on sexual connection in long-term relationships. Especially after having kids, this is something many people struggle with. Emily tells us to stop worrying about what’s “normal” and focus on pleasure in its many forms.

Listen and subscribe to ParentData with Emily Oster in your favorite podcast app 🎧

#parentdata #parentdatapodcast #emilyoster #emilynagoski #comeasyouare #cometogether #longtermrelationship #intimacy #relationships
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Ever wondered if you can safely use leftover baby formula? 🍼 The CDC says to throw out unused formula immediately because of the risk of bacterial growth. However, research suggests that bacterial concentrations do not appreciably increase after 3, 12, or even 24 hours at refrigerator temperatures. Good news! This means there’s not a strong data-based reason to throw out formula right away if you store it in the fridge.

Comment “Link” for a DM to an article on another common formula question: should you throw away old formula powder?

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Ever wondered if you can safely use leftover baby formula? 🍼 The CDC says to throw out unused formula immediately because of the risk of bacterial growth. However, research suggests that bacterial concentrations do not appreciably increase after 3, 12, or even 24 hours at refrigerator temperatures. Good news! This means there’s not a strong data-based reason to throw out formula right away if you store it in the fridge.

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What’s the most important piece of advice for new parents? Here’s one answer, but I want to hear from you! Share your suggestions in the comments ⬇️

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What’s the most important piece of advice for new parents? Here’s one answer, but I want to hear from you! Share your suggestions in the comments ⬇️

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