Should I Redshirt My Kids from Kindergarten?

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Should I Redshirt My Kids from Kindergarten?

Q&A on being the youngest in class

Emily Oster

3 min Read

What’s the real story behind “redshirting” kindergarten? Both my kids have later summer birthdays, so they’ll meet the age requirement for kindergarten but will be really young for their class. Does the data support holding them back for a year so they’re some of the oldest in their grade?

—Tove

For the uninitiated: “redshirting” is a term drawn from college sports that is now commonly applied to kindergarten. To “redshirt” your child is to hold them back from school for a year so they enter at an older age. It’s most commonly done for kids, like yours, who have a summer birthday, so they’d be among the youngest in the class if they entered at the “normal” time.

I spend a lot of time on the question of redshirting in The Family Firm, and there’s a lengthy excerpt in this post.

One lesson that comes out of the data is that children who are younger for their grade are more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD or ADD. This result comes from data that is able to isolate the effect of relative age, so the researchers are able to make a plausible causal argument that entering school on the younger side increases the chance of this diagnosis. Careful diagnosis of learning differences can be extremely important in getting kids the help they need, and there should be no stigma in this. But: in some of these cases, the diagnosis seems to be driven by the age of the child only.

It’s hard to know the precise mechanism, but it seems likely that a piece of this is peer comparison around impulse control. Kids who are older are, on average, better able to sit still. A much younger child may be perceived as hyperactive just by comparison.

Whether this particular concern should be relevant for your decisions depends on your child. It’s a more significant concern if your child struggles more with focus, for example.

On the flip side, holding kids back from kindergarten has potential negatives. Depending on your child, they may enter kindergarten bored with the schoolwork, for example.

There’s also the need to cover another year of child care, which means that it’s more common in wealthier families. As a result, kindergarten ages have increased more for children with more resources, and children with fewer resources are more likely to be on the younger side of a class. Any downsides to that will hit these groups disproportionately. One implication is we may be socially better off if redshirting was effectively not a choice. As long as it is, the bottom line is that the data is a little helpful here, but there are a lot of additional family considerations that matter.

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According to the data we have, parents should sleep in the same room as a baby for as long as it works for them! Sharing a room with a child may have negative impacts on both child and adult sleep. We should give families more help in navigating these trade-offs and making the decisions that work best for them.

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The AAP’s guidelines recommend sleeping in the same room as your baby “ideally for the first six months.” However, the risk of SIDS is dramatically lower after four months, and the evidence in favor of the protective effect of room sharing is quite weak (both overall and even more so after four months). There is also growing evidence that infants who sleep in their own room by four months sleep better at four months, better at nine months, and even better at 30 months.

With this in mind, it’s worth asking why this recommendation continues at all — or at least why the AAP doesn’t push it back to four months. They say decreased arousals from sleep are linked to SIDS, which could mean that babies sleeping in their own room is risky. But this link is extremely indirect, and they do not show direct evidence to support it.

According to the data we have, parents should sleep in the same room as a baby for as long as it works for them! Sharing a room with a child may have negative impacts on both child and adult sleep. We should give families more help in navigating these trade-offs and making the decisions that work best for them.

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Watch the full segment at the link in my bio 🔗

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Watch the full segment at the link in my bio 🔗

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My guest on this episode, @everodsky, has come up with a solution here, or at least a way for us to recognize the problem and make our own solutions. I’ve wanted to speak with Eve for ages, since I read her book Fair Play. We had a great conversation about the division of household labor, one I think you’ll get a lot out of!

Listen and subscribe to ParentData with Emily Oster in your favorite podcast app 🎧

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Vitamins are just vitamins. Any prenatal vitamin that contains these is enough. 

Comment “Link” for a DM to an article with everything you need to know about prenatal vitamins.

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Vitamins are just vitamins. Any prenatal vitamin that contains these is enough.

Comment “Link” for a DM to an article with everything you need to know about prenatal vitamins.

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The first edition of Hot Flash is out now! Comment “Link” for a DM to learn more about the late-reproductive stage.

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Listen and subscribe to ParentData with Emily Oster in your favorite podcast app 🎧

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Comment “Link” for a DM to an article on another common formula question: should you throw away old formula powder?

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Ever wondered if you can safely use leftover baby formula? 🍼 The CDC says to throw out unused formula immediately because of the risk of bacterial growth. However, research suggests that bacterial concentrations do not appreciably increase after 3, 12, or even 24 hours at refrigerator temperatures. Good news! This means there’s not a strong data-based reason to throw out formula right away if you store it in the fridge.

Comment “Link” for a DM to an article on another common formula question: should you throw away old formula powder?

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Breastfeeding is often difficult, especially at the start. For babies with tongue ties, many infants (and their moms) struggle to get the hang of a good latch. This can lead to painful nipples and to inefficient feeding, and then low weight gain.

So what does the data say about the increasingly common practice of cutting tongue-ties in infants to improve breastfeeding success? Several weeks ago, @nytimes published a long and quite scary article on this topic.

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Breastfeeding is often difficult, especially at the start. For babies with tongue ties, many infants (and their moms) struggle to get the hang of a good latch. This can lead to painful nipples and to inefficient feeding, and then low weight gain.

So what does the data say about the increasingly common practice of cutting tongue-ties in infants to improve breastfeeding success? Several weeks ago, @nytimes published a long and quite scary article on this topic.

After diving into the data, here is what I found. There is limited evidence that frenotomy procedures improve breastfeeding efficacy and the harms of the procedure are minimal. Many women do report that it alleviates pain and helps them with breastfeeding. However, it should not be a first-line treatment for breastfeeding problems.

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I’m here to remind you to take a deep breath and trust yourself. I’ll be here to support you along the way. 

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Tag a friend who needs to hear this 💛 For many choices in parenting, there is no one right answer. We can use research and data to make informed decisions, but ultimately, it won’t tell you what to do. Only you can decide what will be best for your kids and your family.

I’m here to remind you to take a deep breath and trust yourself. I’ll be here to support you along the way.

Thank you to everyone who submitted videos, including:
@sarah.consoli
@jess_lynn627
@nicolevandenwills
@thedrblair
@ncbenedict29
@haleycimini
@iamkellysnodgrass
@calesse_smith
@garnet__gordon
@jencoopgaiser87
@danigirl18c
@jamielundergreen
@carly_comber
@thecelebratingmama
@emilyannbynum
@eeliz413

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Congratulations on making it through another year of panic headlines! We’ve had some doozies this year, like aspartame causing cancer and the perils of white noise, but these headlines are very often based on poor data. Correlation does not equal causation. There will certainly be more panic headlines in 2024, but ParentData is here to debunk them for you.

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