Alice22089

I think this is a very personal decision for each person and couple to make, but I can tell you that having 3 kids has made my life so much better and I have no regrets. It’s absolutely hard, especially when they are young, but it’s also filled with so much love and joy. The hardest part for me was that your identity really changes and you have to figure out how to be both a parent and retain your own identity. It’s not easy, but I personally think it is worth it. I do have days where I miss when it was just my husband and I (and our dual income with no kid expenses!) but I wouldn’t change a thing!