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Same thing happened to me when I stopped birth control. I wonder if the hormones had anything to do with it.

This is a super personal decision and one I struggled with and had all the same questions! We decided to have a kid and it was so great we decided to have another. We now have a 3 yr old and 4 month old. I can honestly say I can’t believe I almost missed out on this. One positive it def made Covid isolation more interesting! But I love my kids more than I EVER could have imagined. Even when my 3 yr old is frustrating as heck. She makes experiencing life and all the little things so much more interesting. Now we haven’t gotten to middle school so jury is still out on that stage. When I think back on my pre kid life and now I think “what would I be doing?” Going out to dinner more, going to concerts, maybe more epic vacations. I can do that again one day when my kids are older and we can experience it together. One thing that weighed heavily in my decision though is the concern that my child might have a disability (we have cousins with severe autism). That would definitely change my perspective I think. I ended up taking a chance but I wouldn’t make that decision for anyone else.