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I was handling all our daughter’s nights completely alone, starting from the second night after my C-section. My husband (who besides that is a great and involved dad and does a lot around the house) never woke up at night for our daughter’s first six months (at least); would not wake up in the morning either, he would sleep in, even after I had the most shitty of nights. Everybody around us acted like it was perfectly normal; we spent several vacation at my in laws when our daughter was a baby and they never said a word to him. I was so tired and angry and felt inadequate for feeling that way. What I would have liked to hear from anyone is that it was not ok and he was acting like an a***. It would not have made any actual difference but it would have made me feel better.