danielle.dahl

Same position here! I have one kid ( at 37). To keep it short and to the point.. There in just no way to know how you’ll feel. I was on the fence and decided to try as I was 36 and ready for the next step with my husband. I felt like I would more likely regret not having them than having them. After fertiltu struggles, we have one and I was surprised at how much I took to being a mom. I also know people that wanted it 100% and struggle so you use can’t know. My advice with the isolation part is to create community with others who have kids. The adults can hang out while kids play. Also, we have tried to make our lives as similar as possible. We go out to dinner with her, travel etc. it’s not easy. It’s the hardest and best thing.