Diana

I was in similar shoes as you a few years ago. My husband and I had been married for six years and really loved our life. We got to travel a lot, both focus on serious careers, and otherwise lead fulfilling lives. But we saw the clock ticking and realized we needed to make a decision. Neither of us was sure! But we looked to what our lives would be like at 70, and we realized that we wanted to have our kids at our thanksgiving table. The only way to do that was to have kids now. So we did; I had my first at 36 and am pregnant now with my second. Life is absolutely crazy, but I love it.