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Some practical questions to consider. Are you and your partner fully equal partners in household tasks now? All too often moms become the default parent and that can lead to a lot of conflict. Do you both have jobs that are flexible and family friendly? If only one of you do that one is likely to be doing most of the sick days, kids appointments etc. What is your childcare plan and how much does that cost? How much will childcare impact your income? Do you have family or friends who will help support you as a true village or will you be mostly on your own? Is the thought of your big weekend plans being going to the playground and ordering takeout acceptable to you? All of the answer to these questions can greatly impact how enjoyable parenting will be for you.