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It really depends what is most important to you! If the most important thing in your life is lounging around on the weekends…having kids is probably not for you lol. Personally, I felt like I had travelled a ton, partied, relaxed, done what I wanted for a long time and I was ready to focus instead on raising a child for a while. It is the best decision I have ever made and I love this baby more than life itself!! He brings so much joy to me and my husband and all the fun activities that you can do with kids is what we look forward to as he grows. And then having that family in the future with adult children at the dining table at holidays and maybe even grandkids is what I saw for my life. I was 33 when I had my baby so again I felt I had experienced a good amount of the flip side of life. No one can prepare you for what it is like to have a child. It is very difficult at times and I am tired but it is the greatest joy and love you can know. I honestly feel bad now for people who missed out on this experience. If there is even a chance you might want kids I would go for it because there is a somewhat small window you can do so.