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I would highly recommend the book The Baby Decision by Merle Bombardieri. My husband and I were in the exact same scenario and it was hugely helpful in making our decision. It walks you through thought exercises and topics of conversation that get at your hopes, expectations, fears, tradeoffs. The writing is non judgmental and balances. We did decide to have a baby and the book was great in helping us decide but also communicate about co-parenting.