leilatequila

As a joke with my husband, we often say short term suffering for long term reward. We are 36f and 38m and didn’t really feel like we HAD to have a child, but we would think about our future in 10-20 years. I was worried about that version of myself. Would she morn or regret not even trying? So we tried and have an adorable and busy 1 year old. And it’s hard but so sweet and life changing. I think parenting is wonderful, but if you decide not to become parents, you will be able to find joy in that space too.