Betty

My partner and and I also had a very tough time with this decision. He wanted kids and I didn’t. After a lot of discussion, we ultimately decided to have a child, who is now 3 months old. I don’t regret having a kid, and so far I have really enjoyed becoming a mother. But I also know now if we had made the other decision and didn’t have children, I would have been happy and had a fulfilling life just the two of us. I think the hardest part is making the decision. There is a sort of relief once you make your decision, you can accept your choice and move forward…you just have to stick with it and know you made the best one you could.