Data Literacy for Parenting

Emily Oster

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Emily Oster

Data Literacy for Parenting

The statistical tools you need once you have kids

Emily Oster

9 min Read

The ParentData mission statement (it’s on my door!) is “To create the most data-literate generation of parents.” The other day, someone on my team said to me a version of You know, we talk about this a lot. But I realized I’m not exactly sure what you mean by data literacy. What do you want people to be able to do?

A note taped to Emily Oster's office door reads "Mission: Create the most data literate and informed generation of parents."

It’s a good question! Today is an attempt at an answer. I’m not the only person in the world who uses the phrase “data literacy.” But what does that mean, concretely?

It’s easiest to start with what it doesn’t mean.

One thing it doesn’t mean is that I’m aiming to train everyone to do the job I do. For one thing, I wouldn’t have a job then. But more importantly: there is value in specialization. I spent a long time in graduate school and in my professional career working on how we learn facts from data. It is my job; you all have your own jobs! Training people to be data-literate does not mean training them all to be econometricians.

A corollary of this is that data literacy isn’t about having everyone “do their own research” à la Kyrie Irving. It isn’t about training people to distrust expertise.

For me, increasing data literacy means training people to engage better with expertise — to ask the right questions and understand the context. It’s about helping people process “panic headlines” in a more nuanced and less panicky way.

In doing this, I see four key data-literacy lessons. Here they are — and, by extension, here’s what I want you to learn.

Note: The simple lessons below link to further reading  in our ParentData archive. We’ve opened these up to everyone for the week. If you want continued access to these posts — along with all of my past writing on ParentData.org — please consider a paid subscription!

Lesson 1: Where does data come from?

We see facts based on data all the time.

  • The unemployment rate is 3.6%
  • 42.4% of adults have obesity
  • The median household income in the U.S. in 2021 was $70,784

These facts aren’t handed down by some all-powerful data wizard in the sky. They’re based on information collected from people — in the cases of those facts above, information collected in surveys. Of course, in a sense we must all know that, but having talked to many people about this type of information, it has become clear to me that we don’t think much about the implications of where data comes from.

The question of where data comes from in any given setting is important, however, since different approaches to data collection yield different issues and interpretations. I do a lot of work with data on individual diets. Most of that data is based on individuals’ reports of what they eat — when you recognize that, you realize that it must not be that accurate. We have detailed dietary data from, say, laboratory studies that carefully control what people eat. That data is really accurate, but also not at all representative.

When we know where data comes from, we can also better understand that it comes with noise. The unemployment rate in the U.S. is based on data from surveys of a subset of individuals; these are randomly sampled, so we expect to get the number right on average, but the samples aren’t universal, which means they come with statistical error. When the unemployment rate moves from 3.6% to 3.7%, that may well just reflect different errors, not a real change.

Moral of the lesson: Data doesn’t come from a magic data fairy, and understanding where it does come from is the first part of data literacy.

Further reading on this: Where Does Data Come From?

Lesson 2: Correlation is not causality

I said at the top here that I do not intend to teach people econometrics, but this second lesson aims to teach just one important concept: the difference between correlation and causation.

If you read this newsletter often, you’ll recognize this as a lesson I repeat over and over. If you’re new, here’s the gist.

Often, when we look to learn from data, we are looking to learn the relationship between some behavior or action (the “treatment”) and something we care about (the “outcome”). For example: the relationship between eating chia seeds (the treatment) and heart health (the outcome). An easy thing to do with data is to ask whether two variables are correlated — literally, this is just asking whether they move together. Do people who eat more chia seeds have better heart health?

This kind of link is a correlation. It is not necessarily causal. Seeing that chia seeds and heart health move together doesn’t tell us that if you started eating chia seeds, your heart health would improve. The reason is that there are many other characteristics of people who eat chia seeds that differ from those of people who do not (more education, more income, exercise more, follow weird health fads, etc.). Seeing a correlation between chia seeds and heart health doesn’t tell you if it is the chia seeds or if it is all the other things that also are related to heart health that drive the relationship.

A huge share of the “panic headlines” that I write and talk about are a result of people observing a correlation and interpreting it as causal. Breastfeeding and test scores. Screen time and behavior problems. Anything at all about diet and health.

If we want to learn about causal relationships, the best way to do this is with data in which the treatment is randomized, so we can be confident that the groups that are treated and untreated are otherwise similar. It is sometimes possible to generate causal relationships from non-randomized data, but it usually requires something special about the setting — a source of randomness in treatment, even if it is not explicit.

The core data-literacy message here is to ask critically whether a relationship seems likely to be causal or if it is likely just a correlation. Think about the treatment — the behavior or action that is being evaluated. Does it seem likely that that treatment is effectively random across people? If not, you probably have a correlation and not a causality problem.

Further readingWhy I Look at Data DifferentlyCoffee Definitely Either Kills You or Makes You Live Forever, My interview with Bapu Jena

Lesson 3: Be Bayesian

When (traditional) media reports on studies, there is a breathless “A new study shows…!” tone that often accompanies the reports. It is easy to come away with the general impression that every new study should replace what we had before.

This is not true.

There are some cases where a new study is so much better than what has come before — it’s randomized where we didn’t have randomized data in the past, for example — that we do want to sit up and pay attention. But that’s not common. Most of the time, new studies are building on top of what came before (sometimes making the same mistakes) and should be considered as part of a broader literature.

A key part of data literacy is, when faced with a new set of results, asking what came before that this builds on. By extension, if we see a new result that contradicts the existing literature, it’s important to be thoughtful about how much we change our beliefs. If the new data is in some way much better than older data, it might make sense to change our beliefs substantially. But more commonly, new data isn’t necessarily better, and we should perhaps let it move our beliefs only a little (or not at all).

This idea of updating what we believe based on new data, but not throwing away the old data, is what I mean by “Be Bayesian,” which refers to an approach to statistics that mirrors this.

Further reading: Bayes’ Rule Is My Faves RulePrenatal Tests and False Positives

Lesson 4: We should democratize data

My final lesson on data literacy is more of a call to action.

Part of being data-literate is knowing what kind of data should be possible, and pushing the powers that be to actually collect it.

During the pandemic, I and others spent many hours putting together COVID-related data. In my case, we focused on school data, and much of my work collecting data on COVID outbreaks in schools was motivated by the fact that others, including government agencies, were not collecting this information. I was glad we were able to partially step in, but I remain frustrated and angry that more wasn’t done at an official level to get data that would have helped with decision-making.

In another domain: We complain in this newsletter about the need for better data on breast milk storage. The CDC has guidelines about milk storage that do not appear to be rooted in any actual evidence. I’ve said many times that we need better data on this.

The more people we have calling for these kinds of data, the more likely it is that someone will produce them. I firmly believe that if more people had pushed the Department of Education during the pandemic to collect data on schools, more would have been done. One key barrier to this advocacy is a lack of understanding of what kind of data is even possible.

This, then, is the last data-literacy lesson: Being data-literate means knowing what data is possible. It’s the ability to say, hey, CDC, you could totally set up a project to test bacterial loads in breast milk. And if enough of us shout this kind of thing, maybe it will happen.

Further reading: Breast Milk StorageCOVID-19 School Data HubUpdates on state test score recovery

So there it is, four key building blocks of data literacy that ParentData strives for. It’s on the door, it’s down on paper — now all we need to do is get moving on informing everyone.

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I’m calling on you today to share your story. I know that many of you have experienced complications during pregnancy, birth, or postpartum. It’s not something we want to talk about, but it’s important that we do. Not just for awareness, but to help people going through it feel a little less alone.

That’s why I’m asking you to post a story, photo, or reel this week with #MyUnexpectedStory and tag me. I’ll re-share as many as I can to amplify. Let’s fill our feeds with these important stories and lift each other up. Our voices can create change. And your story matters. 💙

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I’m calling on you today to share your story. I know that many of you have experienced complications during pregnancy, birth, or postpartum. It’s not something we want to talk about, but it’s important that we do. Not just for awareness, but to help people going through it feel a little less alone.

That’s why I’m asking you to post a story, photo, or reel this week with #MyUnexpectedStory and tag me. I’ll re-share as many as I can to amplify. Let’s fill our feeds with these important stories and lift each other up. Our voices can create change. And your story matters. 💙

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OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio!

OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio! ...

OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio!

OUT NOW: My new book “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available on April 30th. All of my other books came out of my own experiences. I wrote them to answer questions I had, as a pregnant woman and then as a new parent. “The Unexpected” is a book not to answer my own questions but to answer yours. Specifically, to answer the thousands of questions I’ve gotten over the past decade from people whose pregnancies were more complicated than they had expected. This is for you. 💛 Order now at my link in bio! ...

Is side sleeping important during pregnancy? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article on whether sleep position affects pregnancy outcomes.

Being pregnant makes you tired, and as time goes by, it gets increasingly hard to get comfortable. You were probably instructed to sleep on your side and not your back, but it turns out that advice is not based on very good data.

We now have much better data on this, and the bulk of the evidence seems to reject the link between sleep position and stillbirth or other negative outcomes. So go ahead and get some sleep however you are most comfortable. 💤

Sources:
📖 #ExpectingBetter pp. 160-163
📈 Robert M. Silver et al., “Prospective Evaluation of Maternal Sleep Position Through 30 Weeks of Gestation and Adverse Pregnancy Outcomes,” Obstetrics and Gynecology 134, no. 4 (2019): 667–76. 

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Is side sleeping important during pregnancy? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article on whether sleep position affects pregnancy outcomes.

Being pregnant makes you tired, and as time goes by, it gets increasingly hard to get comfortable. You were probably instructed to sleep on your side and not your back, but it turns out that advice is not based on very good data.

We now have much better data on this, and the bulk of the evidence seems to reject the link between sleep position and stillbirth or other negative outcomes. So go ahead and get some sleep however you are most comfortable. 💤

Sources:
📖 #ExpectingBetter pp. 160-163
📈 Robert M. Silver et al., “Prospective Evaluation of Maternal Sleep Position Through 30 Weeks of Gestation and Adverse Pregnancy Outcomes,” Obstetrics and Gynecology 134, no. 4 (2019): 667–76.

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My new book, “The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications” is available for preorder at the link in my bio!

I co-wrote #TheUnexpected with my friend and maternal fetal medicine specialist, Dr. Nathan Fox. The unfortunate reality is that about half of pregnancies include complications such as preeclampsia, miscarriage, preterm birth, and postpartum depression. Because these are things not talked about enough, it can not only be an isolating experience, but it can also make treatment harder to access.

The book lays out the data on recurrence and delves into treatment options shown to lower risk for these conditions in subsequent pregnancies. It also guides you through how to have productive conversations and make shared decisions with your doctor. I hope none of you need this book, but if you do, it’ll be here for you 💛

#pregnancy #pregnancycomplications #pregnancyjourney #preeclampsiaawareness #postpartumjourney #emilyoster
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We are better writers than influencers, I promise. Thanks to our kids for filming our unboxing videos. People make this look way too easy. 

Only two weeks until our book “The Unexpected” is here! Preorder at the link in my bio. 💙

We are better writers than influencers, I promise. Thanks to our kids for filming our unboxing videos. People make this look way too easy.

Only two weeks until our book “The Unexpected” is here! Preorder at the link in my bio. 💙
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While doctors have long said Tylenol was safe, confusing studies, panic headlines, and even a lawsuit have continually stoked fears in parents. As a result, many pregnant women have chosen not to take it, even if it would help them.

This is why good data is so important! When we can trust the data, we can trust our choices. And this study shows there is no blame to be placed on pregnant women here. So if you have a migraine or fever, please take your Tylenol.

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Exciting news! We have new, high-quality data that says it’s safe to take Tylenol during pregnancy and there is no link between Tylenol exposure and neurodevelopmental issues in kids. Comment “Link” for a DM to an article exploring this groundbreaking study.

While doctors have long said Tylenol was safe, confusing studies, panic headlines, and even a lawsuit have continually stoked fears in parents. As a result, many pregnant women have chosen not to take it, even if it would help them.

This is why good data is so important! When we can trust the data, we can trust our choices. And this study shows there is no blame to be placed on pregnant women here. So if you have a migraine or fever, please take your Tylenol.

#tylenol #pregnancy #pregnancyhealth #pregnancytips #parentdata #emilyoster
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How many words should kids say — and when? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about language development!

For this graph, researchers used a standardized measure of vocabulary size. Parents were given a survey and checked off all the words and sentences they have heard their child say.

They found that the average child—the 50th percentile line—at 24 months has about 300 words. A child at the 10th percentile—near the bottom of the distribution—has only about 50 words. On the other end, a child at the 90th percentile has close to 600 words. One main takeaway from these graphs is the explosion of language after fourteen or sixteen months. 

What’s valuable about this data is it can give us something beyond a general guideline about when to consider early intervention, and also provide reassurance that there is a significant range in this distribution at all young ages. 

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How many words should kids say — and when? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about language development!

For this graph, researchers used a standardized measure of vocabulary size. Parents were given a survey and checked off all the words and sentences they have heard their child say.

They found that the average child—the 50th percentile line—at 24 months has about 300 words. A child at the 10th percentile—near the bottom of the distribution—has only about 50 words. On the other end, a child at the 90th percentile has close to 600 words. One main takeaway from these graphs is the explosion of language after fourteen or sixteen months.

What’s valuable about this data is it can give us something beyond a general guideline about when to consider early intervention, and also provide reassurance that there is a significant range in this distribution at all young ages.

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I saw this and literally laughed out loud 😂 Thank you @adamgrant for sharing this gem! Someone let me know who originally created this masterpiece so I can give them the proper credit.

I saw this and literally laughed out loud 😂 Thank you @adamgrant for sharing this gem! Someone let me know who originally created this masterpiece so I can give them the proper credit. ...

Perimenopause comes with a whole host of symptoms, like brain fog, low sex drive, poor energy, and loss of muscle mass. These symptoms can be extremely bothersome and hard to treat. Could testosterone help? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about the data on testosterone treatment for women in perimenopause.

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Perimenopause comes with a whole host of symptoms, like brain fog, low sex drive, poor energy, and loss of muscle mass. These symptoms can be extremely bothersome and hard to treat. Could testosterone help? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about the data on testosterone treatment for women in perimenopause.

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Summer is quickly approaching! You might be wondering if it’s the right time to have your kid start swim lessons. The AAP recommends starting between 1 and 4 years old. This is largely based on a randomized trial where young children were put into 8 or 12 weeks of swim lessons. They found that swimming ability and water safety reactions improve in both groups, and more so in the 12 weeks group.

Below this age range though, they are too young to actually learn how to swim. It’s fine to bring your baby into the pool (if you’re holding them) and they might like the water. But starting formal safety-oriented swim lessons before this age isn’t likely to be very helpful.

Most importantly, no matter how old your kid is or how good of a swimmer they are, adult supervision is always necessary!

#swimlessons #watersafety #kidsswimminglessons #poolsafety #emilyoster #parentdata

What age is best to start swim lessons? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article about water safety for children 💦

Summer is quickly approaching! You might be wondering if it’s the right time to have your kid start swim lessons. The AAP recommends starting between 1 and 4 years old. This is largely based on a randomized trial where young children were put into 8 or 12 weeks of swim lessons. They found that swimming ability and water safety reactions improve in both groups, and more so in the 12 weeks group.

Below this age range though, they are too young to actually learn how to swim. It’s fine to bring your baby into the pool (if you’re holding them) and they might like the water. But starting formal safety-oriented swim lessons before this age isn’t likely to be very helpful.

Most importantly, no matter how old your kid is or how good of a swimmer they are, adult supervision is always necessary!

#swimlessons #watersafety #kidsswimminglessons #poolsafety #emilyoster #parentdata
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Can babies have salt? 🧂 While babies don’t need extra salt beyond what’s in breast milk or formula, the risks of salt toxicity from normal foods are minimal. There are concerns about higher blood pressure in the long term due to a higher salt diet in the first year, but the data on these is not super compelling and the differences are small.

Like with most things, moderation is key! Avoid very salty chips or olives or saltines with your infant. But if you’re doing baby-led weaning, it’s okay for them to share your lightly salted meals. Your baby does not need their own, unsalted, chicken if you’re making yourself a roast. Just skip the super salty stuff.

 #emilyoster #parentdata #childnutrition #babynutrition #foodforkids

Can babies have salt? 🧂 While babies don’t need extra salt beyond what’s in breast milk or formula, the risks of salt toxicity from normal foods are minimal. There are concerns about higher blood pressure in the long term due to a higher salt diet in the first year, but the data on these is not super compelling and the differences are small.

Like with most things, moderation is key! Avoid very salty chips or olives or saltines with your infant. But if you’re doing baby-led weaning, it’s okay for them to share your lightly salted meals. Your baby does not need their own, unsalted, chicken if you’re making yourself a roast. Just skip the super salty stuff.

#emilyoster #parentdata #childnutrition #babynutrition #foodforkids
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Is sleep training bad? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article breaking down the data on sleep training 😴

Among parenting topics, sleep training is one of the most divisive. Ultimately, it’s important to know that studies looking at the short- and long-term effects of sleep training show no evidence of harm. The data actually shows it can improve infant sleep and lower parental depression.

Even so, while sleep training can be a great option, it will not be for everyone. Just as people can feel judged for sleep training, they can feel judged for not doing it. Engaging in any parenting behavior because it’s what’s expected of you is not a good idea. You have to do what works best for your family! If that’s sleep training, make a plan and implement it. If not, that’s okay too.

What’s your experience with sleep training? Did you feel judged for your decision to do (or not do) it?

#sleeptraining #newparents #babysleep #emilyoster #parentdata

Is sleep training bad? Comment “Link” for a DM to an article breaking down the data on sleep training 😴

Among parenting topics, sleep training is one of the most divisive. Ultimately, it’s important to know that studies looking at the short- and long-term effects of sleep training show no evidence of harm. The data actually shows it can improve infant sleep and lower parental depression.

Even so, while sleep training can be a great option, it will not be for everyone. Just as people can feel judged for sleep training, they can feel judged for not doing it. Engaging in any parenting behavior because it’s what’s expected of you is not a good idea. You have to do what works best for your family! If that’s sleep training, make a plan and implement it. If not, that’s okay too.

What’s your experience with sleep training? Did you feel judged for your decision to do (or not do) it?

#sleeptraining #newparents #babysleep #emilyoster #parentdata
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Does your kid love to stall right before bedtime? 💤 Tell me more about their tactics in the comments below!

#funnytweets #bedtime #nightimeroutine #parentinghumor #parentingmemes

Does your kid love to stall right before bedtime? 💤 Tell me more about their tactics in the comments below!

#funnytweets #bedtime #nightimeroutine #parentinghumor #parentingmemes
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Got a big decision to make? 🤔 Comment “Link” for a DM to read about my easy mantra for making hard choices. 

When we face a complicated problem in pregnancy or parenting, and don’t like either option A or B, we often wait around for a secret third option to reveal itself. This magical thinking, as appealing as it is, gets in the way. We need a way to remind ourselves that we need to make an active choice, even if it is hard. The mantra I use for this: “There is no secret option C.”

Having this realization, accepting it, reminding ourselves of it, can help us make the hard decisions and accurately weigh the risks and benefits of our choices.

#parentingquotes #decisionmaking #nosecretoptionc #parentingadvice #emilyoster #parentdata

Got a big decision to make? 🤔 Comment “Link” for a DM to read about my easy mantra for making hard choices.

When we face a complicated problem in pregnancy or parenting, and don’t like either option A or B, we often wait around for a secret third option to reveal itself. This magical thinking, as appealing as it is, gets in the way. We need a way to remind ourselves that we need to make an active choice, even if it is hard. The mantra I use for this: “There is no secret option C.”

Having this realization, accepting it, reminding ourselves of it, can help us make the hard decisions and accurately weigh the risks and benefits of our choices.

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Excuse the language, but I have such strong feelings about this subject! Sometimes, it feels like there’s no winning as a mother. People pressure you to breastfeed and, in the same breath, shame you for doing it in public. Which is it?!

So yes, they’re being completely unreasonable. You should be able to feed your baby in peace. What are some responses you can give to someone who tells you to cover up? Share in the comments below ⬇️

#breastfeeding #breastfeedinginpublic #breastfeedingmom #motherhood #emilyoster

Excuse the language, but I have such strong feelings about this subject! Sometimes, it feels like there’s no winning as a mother. People pressure you to breastfeed and, in the same breath, shame you for doing it in public. Which is it?!

So yes, they’re being completely unreasonable. You should be able to feed your baby in peace. What are some responses you can give to someone who tells you to cover up? Share in the comments below ⬇️

#breastfeeding #breastfeedinginpublic #breastfeedingmom #motherhood #emilyoster
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